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anonymous
writes:So i really like my best friend he's a guy lol and the only problem is that there is almost no physical attraction. i mean i love himm and his ways but there's not physical attraction and idk what to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): I am a guy and I guess I'm in the position of the guy here. A girl really loves me and I love her too. I'm physically attracted to her but I really don't think she is attracted to me. Therefore, we have been 'best friends' and not together.
It hurts me a lot.
If you are the girl out there who is like the girl I know, don't break his heart please.
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (19 October 2009):
 satindesire is 100% correct...i looked at this question particularly because I'm experiencing some of the same...i have a guy whole would do anything for me and does whenever i ask...BUT...im not physically attracted to him...AT ALL...so with these responses it really helps me know that he's just a friend...and not to over think the situation like he maybe the man for me...and i should not just consider his looks...thanks so much to anonymous and satindesire...i wouldn't want to marry him knowing deep inside im not physically attracted...so yes...this is something you and i need to take heed of not ignore...if we're not physically attracted then we shouldn't make anything solid...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): Ooooh, girl, let me tell you. STEER CLEAR. I fell in love and married a man who I wasn't pysically attracted to. He's cute enough and he's certainly grown on me but I'm going on year ten of CONSTANT crushes on other men who I AM pysically attracted to. It's truly painful to see something beautiful - something you want - and not be able to do ANYTHING about it. My own personally-created hell. NOT what your relationship needs! Try to resolve your feelings if possible. Best to hunt down someone gorgeous to make you forget! LOL!
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