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writes:Hi, I really like this guy and he told me that he liked me but also likes someone else alot and he might get together with her. before he told me this we used to talk alot but now he barely even talks to me even when i try talking to him, He's talking to me less and less. I cant understand why this is and I dont know what to do...any advice? it would really help me alot...xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2013): I know this is an old thread, but I am currently experiencing the exact same thing....I met someone online and we have been communicating for a year now. A few months ago, he was telling me I was beautiful and that I was a good woman and a great mother and that I was cute. Then about a month ago, he told me he was talking to someone else. Our conversations have become shorter and shorter, but now I try to get him to talk about this person he is dating, (because I still want to be a good friend to him) and he is being elusive. I think its because he still likes me and doesn't want to give on on the possibility of still dating me if it doesn't work out with the other girl. I was not looking for a relationship when I met him. He told me it was fate that we met. I believe in fate, but I hope I'm not waisting my time.
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reader, the fcken kidd !  +, writes (18 January 2011):
Well , if you REALLY like this guy , then you should fight for him . Despite that he likes this other girl , you should go for it . Have confidence inside yourself . Hang out with him more often , talk to him more . N' if he talks less n' less to you , then well you should move on . Listen hun , this guy you like ISN'T the ONLY one . there's PLENTY of guys out there in this world ! he ain't the only one ! There IS someone that would want you , it's just not the right time yet . So just wait , you'll find him (: stay strong hun 3
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reader, xcharlottex +, writes (28 July 2009):
xcharlottex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to everyone who's helped, this question was posted 2 1/2 years ago things ended between me and him january sometime after this question was posted. He did not get together with the other girl in this question, whom if i remember correctly was his ex. I did try to get closer to him but only pushed him away. I've never made the same mistake since and if someone treated me like that again I would just walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): Well, I'm sorry to say that he obviously seems to like this other girl more than you. There is nothing more to say. You should get over him and find another guy you like- one who likes you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): well you should hang around him a lot and that way he will be more interested in you. Or don't be afraid to just leap up and make a conversation with him.
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reader, kmpcheer101 +, writes (17 August 2008):
ok I had this problem alot and all i did was confront him asking him what his deal was and told him everything that was on my mind. He talks to me again and were friends again. Just be honest with him and everything... Tell me how it all works out..
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~katie~
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): If he truly likes you he will leave the other girl for you. If he doesn't do that ask him why he's not talking to you. And if he STILL doesn't talk to you, looks like it's time tofind someone esle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): i think that you can continue to like him but go out meet other guys theres so many amazing guys out there believe it or not that will love you for you and make u smile
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): Heyy i just read what you said and exactly the same thing in happening to me at the moment, i told this guy i liked him and then i found out he liked someone else aswel and they might be getting together but i decided im just gona forget about him because i realised hes not worth my time!
Good Luck xxx
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reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (20 December 2006):
 If this guy told you he liked you and then all of a sudden decided he didn't then he doesn't deserve to be spoken to by you.Just let it go and forget about him
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reader, cupid_callin  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 your question is almost similar to my situation. my case was just opposite sex ...
So i would suggest what i thought was good answer to my query..Just Text him and tell him abt the feelings.. or you can even talk this with +ve frame of mind... Be Ready to get lil odd reactions as well..!! but atleast you can get thing out of your heart and convey it to your friend...
and once you do it... you can d'cide to continue wid frnship or move on with your life.!!!
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reader, _flicky +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Poor thing. He's leading you on. He should have just told you he didn't like you, and then you would have been able to get over him then instead of being stuck still liking him. Unfortunately for you, he was too much of a coward to tell you the truth.I speak from experience. I was completely infatuated with one guy who said he liked me "a little bit" and then went on to tell me how happy he was when he saw me smiling and things like that. I believed him for about a day before realising "a little bit" meant "not at all" and getting him to admit he liked someone else more. In other words, he didn't really like me and was trying to string me along. He even tried to insist he still liked me, too.If this guy doesn't want to talk to you, ignore him. It might be hard at first, but trust me. He isn't worth your time. Once you find someone who treats you like a person who actually has feelings, you'll be a lot happier.All the best,flicky xx
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (20 December 2006):
 sounds like he has moved on, i think you should too and if he stil does like you surely he would of made the effort by now but he hasnt and becuase u say his interested in another gurl it only reinforces what ive said he aapears to of moved on and if hes not giveing you the attetnion u deserve then hes not worth it so go out go pull lol, ther are plenty of fish in the sea have fun ejoy singleton! hope this helps ;o) xXx
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