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writes: My ex girlfriend asked my to buy her a dildo, she want it to be ten inches, i asked her why? she said she wants something different, keep in mind we've been together for five years and we just recently broken up. and i want her back
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 May 2011):
 It sounds like you two have a lot to work on. It also sounds like she's not really interested in fixing things. Are you asking if she's lying about the dildo or about being friends?
From what you've written, she doesn't want you as a boyfriend. From what you've written, you sound a bit loopy at the moment and like your name implies, um, not thinking the best. Why don't you take a break from stalking her for a while and let some time give you perspective and space from the immediacy of your, um, lack of judgement. Then after say, 2 months, you can revisit the "friendship" question.
Ending a 5 year relationship is not easy nor will it be painless. She's made it pretty clear she does not want to get back with you. So I think your best course of action is to give her all the space she is asking for and then some. She's trying to make you go away, sorry. She doesn't want you back. If you give her a chance to miss you there is a very slim chance she'll come after you, but you have to stop stalking her.
Both of you sound like you have some issues to work on, frankly. So my advice to you is to consider being her friend, but only AFTER you've had at least another 2 months to think about it.
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reader, not myself +, writes (13 May 2011):
not myself is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni thank you guys for the info, ill be honest yesterday i did some very stalker shit, i want to my ex place unannounced "i know bad" so after being turned down to meet right when i was about to leave i see her walking the dog so i stop the car to speak to her, and for some reason when i got in front of her i couldn't say anything i felt and practice i would say, so after seeing her moving forward we are walking the dog and were talking, she say i lost all attraction towards you i lost respect for you all i want is friendship, how could you aspect a person to say ok we could be friends after say all of that? so my question is did she say this cause shes mad? if so is being her friend something i should consider, keep in mind i was with this woman for five yrs, ps she also said "know one took me away from you, you push me away with all the thing you where doing.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 May 2011):
You may have loved her but she's not exactly reciprocating, now, is she? Sorry she's turned out to be such a whacko but I guess people can really fool you. I'd stop contacting a woman who plays such nasty little games. It's healthier for you that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): Dude she's just fucking with you.
Let her go and move on. Stick to your principles and cut off all contact. She just wants to stay in your mind and keep you hanging on, she keeps messing with your head and you know exactly what she's doing. It's going to be one big long headfuck dude, she's made that clear from her big dildo comments. Cut her off.
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reader, not myself +, writes (12 May 2011):
not myself is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlast night i told my ex that i couldn't be friends with her, it hurts to much knowing that she could very well be with someone else, i also told her that i know shes not in love with me anymore she said that's dead and gone but she said she still loves me so i don't know anymore guys. Ive been with this girl for 5 yrs, O she also says that i don't fight for her like i fight for my sister and my ex girlfriend smdh but why fight if you tell me you don't want to be with me anymore i mean what should i do are say should i just stop calling and let her be. i love this girl more then i ever loved another, shes my air and im just so anger at myself for not noticing i need answering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): She's definitely just toying with you.
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reader, not myself +, writes (10 May 2011):
not myself is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto be honest i have know idea, a few of my friends say shes just mind fucking me to see if i would do it but to be honest this is getting exhausting, we've been broken up for a month now and seen her once, i need to know if she going to get back with me just want to put me thre a few things frist or shhes just toying with me and
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Why can't your EX girlfriend buy her own sex toys? Buying her a 10" dildo won't get her back.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): She wants to experience an amazing orgasm. Trouble is she probably will enjoy it a bit too much and may prefer it to sex between you both. Recently I had to wean myself off my vibrator gradually as I climaxed so quickly and intensely my husband couldn't match it. He bought it for me as a gift and now I'm not interested in sex with him but making a real effort not to use as much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): I find it more weird that your ex girlfriend is asking you to buy her a dildo more so that she wants one
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