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writes:Been trying to get a signal/response from a female at work.I left a note saying I had a crush on her.She said thank you after finding out.I mostly have to initiate the conversation at work.I am having trouble reading her.Is she avoiding me?What should I do next?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (6 October 2007):
If she's polite but doesn't contact you when she has a chance you can bet she's not that interested.
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Doing a note is fine. I do see on here you are a bit older. As we get older the cuteness about notes disappears. Some women find it a cute gesture. But as we get older too, women tend to date hoping for a something greater to happen. It's not like being a teen. My daughter changes boys she like as much as I change socks.
On the other side, and adult women in a profession setting could see it as a sign of immaturity, lacking personal strength (if you can't say it to her face.) etc.
Some women need to validate, if they were to go out with you, that you are someone of strength and security. They critique this before even going out on the first date.
You also need to watch their body behavior. One way to tell if she likes you is if you're in a conversation with her, and she starts twirling her hair. Also if you are looking at each other and you take a drink of what you have and she does it at the same time. But if she's someone who sits up straight, good posture, walks as if she's in charge, great confidence, she may have been flattered, but felt silly by getting the note. This is someone who needs more of a direct approach.
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