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writes:Hi. My bf and I have been together 18 months and are happy. I don't get to see him that often because of his work when he is in the area. Maybe once or twice a week every day I wake up and the only work I can use is I panick. I worry about if he still likes me, if im good enough for him, if he is going to leave me. I know it's silly, but it's driving me mad. I dont know what to do. He is my first real bf and I'm 24. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): I completely understand how you're feeling. Its like you're so happy that all you can think about is how your worried it might go away! It sounds like, as with me, you have insecurity issues. You need to ask yourself why you fear things may go wrong and it might mean that you worry your not good enough or worth staying with. If thats the case then you dont need to work on your reltionship just your self esteem and this is not hard to do and being in a loving relationship will help! So basically, work on believing in yourself and telling yourself that whatever happens you WILL be ok and start enjoying your relationship!!!!
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