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30-35,
*ariejd
writes:i have a problem that hurts my boyfriend...... its wierd the way i act when im with my boyfriend and we are out in public for example we are eating out for dinner lets say well if a girl sits beside us i feel lets of a woman when i see their bodies compare to mine its very sad and it makes my man sad too, like if i have my jacket off and the girl comes with big breast i cover up cause i feel like im nothing to look at compared to her what should i do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Ask yourself why you're so insecure. What is it in your past that makes you feel so insecure? There isn't anything wrong with you, and no doubt your boyfriend adores the ground you walk on. He likes you, because you are YOU. Not because you're someone else. Talk to him, tell him you're insecure about your body, and listen to him, because he will reassure you.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 You have no reason to feel that way especially around the person who loves you for who your are. You need to find away to raise your self esteem because there is nothing wrong with the body you have. Talk to your bf about your feelings and I'm sure he'll boost your confidence. Remember that he is with you the way you are so you obviously have desireable characteristics. If small breasts are your concern I'll have you know that there are tons of guys that find them far more attractive then large breasts. Also on the plus side smaller breasts hold there shape for much longer, there might be some comfort in knowing that when the large chested woman is older her breasts are not going to look like that while yours will stay perfect.
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