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writes:My girlfriend dumped me last sunday and this sunday just gone we talked about starting fresh and 2 take things slow by just dating again and meeting up every week or so and to slow down on all the calls and texts, i was fine with that and still am but i still feel she is doing it to just hang onto me. i left it for her to text me and when she did i text back but then it took her over 2hr to reply to me, when she replyed she said she missis talking to me and she phoned me. i asked her what was she upto and she said she has just been chilling witch made me think why couldnt u just have text me back. i know she reads my texts but shes choseing not to answer me right away for some reason! can some1 explain why this may be? she also tells me she loves me when she fells like. this morning i sent her a text at 1.00pm saying "morning baby girl. x did u have a nice sleep? hope you have a nice day at work love you xxx"she starts at 2 and she replyed at 4.30 sayin. Thanks for txt babe, i didnt sleep gd at all, ive got a really busy evening as well x. why didnt she tell me she loves me??
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reader, tommy2k7  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 I read your reply to the person about the person starting a relationship again after being dumped a week ago! I've been treated like that too (my girl even slept with another man 3 days later because I wouldn't make out with her on the 2nd date! Why do I keep on wanting to go0 back to her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): For goodness' sake, she dumped you a week ago! Why in the world are you two talking about starting again and taking things slowly? Where did that idea come from? Did you initiate it, or did she?My guess is that YOU did since you seem to not want to let the relationship go!Possibly she's trying to spare your feelings in telling you she misses you - but that is not wise of her. Remember: SHE dumped YOU. Which means its not HER trying to hang onto you!Perhaps you had best stop sending texts and phone calls. Because, when a relationship is over, that's it, finished, no more.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 She doesn't say she loves you because she doesn't. It's that simple.
I've been there, man. When a girl says she needs space or time away, she needs to take things slowly, et cetera, IT'S OVER. For some reason which only she knows, she is still texting you. But that won't last. You'll go through the pain of waiting for her texts and trying to figure out what is going on, and the pain of hearing one excuse after another. Spare yourself the pain and move on. Don't say a word, and walk away in silence. Believe me, it's the best you can do. You'll feel in hell for a very long time, but this is the way to go.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Hi babe, just tell me why are you still letting her treat you like this you DO NOT deserve it, i can see you obviously care about her but she is treating you like dirt, you need to stop texting her and trying to call her and give her a taste of her own medicine.
If she then contacts you you need to explain how you feel and ask her what she wants from you, if she can't give you a straight answer and abit more respect then give up,don't keep chasing someone that is going to be like this with you.
Feel free to contact me if you want,take care.xx.
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reader, NuVu  +, writes (19 June 2007):
I know this will be hard, but you got to just walk away from her, NOW. She can't dump you and then keep you around. She's not respecting you, and your not really respecting yourself to let her play with you like this. Think about it... she dumps you and then she continues to treat you like you don't matter, but still you keep coming back for more. Say your goodbyes and don't crumble and be weak about it... she will try to suck you back in, but don't let her. The only way she'll start to appreciate you again is by you moving on with your life.
Sorry i don't mean to sound harsh. Its just that you deserve to be treated fairly and respectfully.
Good luck.
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