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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:why would a man introduce you to his kids, mother tell you he loves you every single day, spend time with you every night and all weekend, make plans for the future and the whole time he's decieving you by interacting with a married woman he works with? Is it to get ahead? True Love? He never ended it, just tried to keep both up until I ended it but cannot understand what he was thinking. We had a great time, were in love, our kids were great together, and then just like that, it stopped.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 His married lover was probably looking for a fling and he was flattered to be the lucky bloke she picked. Too many men do not know how to say 'no' to this type of temptation. It is unfortunate that he hurt you and lost a great gal in the process. Not to mention, disappointing his kids by being such a stellar-quality role model for them. You're better off without him. Even if he breaks it off with Mrs. Big at this point, you'll never really trust him again and that will eventually unravel the relationship. You'll find someone else, just give it some time.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 My guess is that he wanted a relationship with you (you met up with his family), and have an affair with her. It does not make it right if the two of you were suppose to be monogamous, but it does sound likely.
-FBK
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 June 2007):
 He was doing to because he thought he could get away with stringing both of you along. Best of both worlds kind of thing. Unfortunatley he got caught. When men think with their willies this is what happens. You are better off, trust me.
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