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writes: I doubt you'll be able to answer this in time but i thought i would give it a try. Well this boy who was in my class last year asked me out on a date for tomorrow online .. and at the same time his hot, popular friend asked the same question. It just felt a little odd that they were both asking me but i dont kno but they both suggested we should all go out. Today is Thursday and tomorrow is the day were suppose to go to the movies. Am i suppose to text or call the guy who asked and see if its still happening or should i wait it out? im so confused, i like both of these guys and i dont want to ruin it.
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reader, loveisapain +, writes (16 June 2006):
 i would just text or call them both and see if they woould feel right with you going with both of them. or i would get a really good friend to go with you and see if one of the guys ends up likeing her instead.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Sounds to me like both guys discussed asking you out between themselves. I can't think of any other reason for them both to ask you to the same place, on the same night!
Presumably then, each guy knows that the other has asked you. Is that meant to be a one-girl-two-guys date, or are they expecting you to choose between them? If it's the latter, then they've put you in a tight spot and a short timeframe, which isn't really fair to you.
If both fellows know that they've both asked you, then you'd have two choices that I can see. You can either go out with the one you like best and tell the other one you're sorry, or you can go out with both, on different nights. Why not go out with the other guy on another night? Or an afternoon?
On the other hand, if neither one knows the other has asked you, then it's a case of deciding who you'd rather see on Friday, and telling the second guy that you're sorry, but asking if you could you make it another night.
The main point here is that you're involved with the decision making process; you're not just a passive little wallflower who's only allowed to giggle "yes" or "no". If you've been asked by two guys, you will have to decide which one to see first, and then try to make other arrangements with the second guy.
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