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writes:HELP!!! Ma friend hasnt been online for over a week i love her to pieces, she knows i love her, but i'm worried sick over her, she has been online once, only once, this week :( from the time i came back from holiday until now (sunday i came back and its already wednesday its been three days) am i over worrying myself???? normally i'm able to speak to her everyday but i have sent countless msn's and i dont know if shes recieved em :( i have no idea what to do, should i email her and tell her how i feel? shes in USA so i thought it could be time line factor, i stayed up ALL night to see if she comes on :( with very little luck!!! so my questions are:1) Am i over worrying myself???2) Should i send an email telling her how i feel???Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question:( *cries* well i *cries even more* spoke to her but got yelled back at, i guess the caps lock button got pressed by accident, she has a computer issue, its a virus, but she wont allow me to help *sobs* i could have it cleared :( i'm hoping she'll fix it soon though i love her to pieces :( but thanks for all those replies :)
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Yes you are worrying FAR too much, and of course you can e-mail her and tell her how you feel.
Maybe she is on holiday, or her computer is broken, or her parents have grounded her and that includes internet privileges. There are so many reasons someone may not be online, and of those hundreds of reasons only two I can think of are bad. So the odds are in your favour, I'm sure she's fine.
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 3 days isnt long, she might be bisy or lost internet connection or any of a number of things, wait it out, se what happens, dont get too clingy else you might push her away.
i'm sure she is fine.
i lived in england and my husband in america, there would be times when we didnt get to catch up for days and it would always be because of something silly like work or hours or sleep or internet or something that just led him or i to get caught up in life and spend a coupld of days not communicating - it always turned out to be ok though - give it a few more days!
bad news travels faster than good or no news so stop worrying
xx
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reader, b.rye +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Just send an email telling her you've not heard from her and just want to make sure everything is okay and to please write back so your mind can be at ease. Any good friend would not want the people they care about to be worried.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (15 April 2009):
Dude I think you should take deep breaths......yes love ur worrying toooo much! Just leave her alone for a while! Dude she might just be buisy or something so just chill!!
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