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writes:i'm straight and in a relationship, i've been with many girls, i'm really attracted to them and lesbians, i often find im turned on by girls i shouldnt been like my ex's sisters and stuff. anyway my question is, i like to watch gay porn and get erect when i see naked men or men kissing and the thought of being gay makes me feel funnny inside, i know im not gay cause i like girls and i'd never kiss a boy or go out with one, but what do you think it is.?
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reader, CaringGayGuy +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Hi I know that you have said that you dont want a relationshipbwith a man but that you cant explore more with this desire like look at male celebrities do you think their sexy, hot or nothing you dont necessarily need an erection to know but do you feel something unusual when you see them? or you can compare your feelings with naked women and naked men and if you feel something for both you could be Bisexual or Bicurious but if you feel something for men and not women then your gay. dont be ashamed of yourself if you are just if your having a lot of trouble with this see your School Councillor if your still in school or see a therapist but dont be ashamed if your gay enjoy it if bi or bicurious explore with it and if your straight after all then be yourself! hope this helps
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (4 November 2010):
 getting erect is something that happens to me when i see females in porn and i'm gay. but feeling funny inside rarely ever happens, if you get a kind of crazy excitement in your guts then for me there is some element of craving man sex. its the funny feeling in my gut that differentiates between men and women for me (in that i almost never get those gut feelings of desire for women). good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Hi,
My best friend admitted to me she gets turned on my lesbian porn, but is in NO way that was inclined. I don't think it can really be explained but that's just the way it is. It could be the thrill of looking at something you know you would never do?
Either way you're not weird. :)
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (3 November 2010):
You're straight. Porn can turn you on, and you like watching other men have sex but it doesnt mean you want to try it. I get turned on by same sex porn but i dont see myself ever having sex with another girl, or watch my bf have sex with another man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): You are still very young. Do not be worried if you are gay, you won't be able to fight it if you are. You may bi bisexual but either way, be who you are.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 The answer is actually quite simple and I would not suggest you seek professional help unless you think this will be helpful to you, or you want to change something.
As it is you have a healthy relationship to your own sexuality. You know what you like and you know who you shouldn't get turned on by because of morals. But you know, your brain and your body aren't always on the same track.
There are multiple things we get turned on by that in real life would repulse us. For example many get turned on by rape-scenarios, sex with minors, incest, you name it. Many times because it is taboo, and thats precisely what makes it so delightful... that it's forbidden. Many love to fantasize about brother and sister having sex, or other incest combinations, but think the idea in real life is repulsive and disgusting.
Many also like beastiality, animal sex. Does that mean we want to go out and hump a tiger? No. The key word here is fantasy. What you think is hot in a fantasy is NOT what you would be turned on by in real life. It is important here to underline the word FANTASY and separate it from the word REALITY.
You think the fantasy is hot, but the reality is not. Simple and easy like I said. And you are not alone. I have tons of those fantasies too, fantasies that drive me crazy, but I'd never even think about doing it in real life. It's perfectly normal.
But wait with sharing it with your teen-friends. Most teens don't understand things about sexuality yet, and would be quick to misunderstand and judge. Best to keep fantasies private until you know you can trust the person you confine in.
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