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writes:Hello everyone This sounds really silly, and being my age ive only had 4 sexual partners and most of them have been long term relationships,Anyway i meet this guy last year slept with him twice then stoped, then last night meet him again and ended up sleeping with him, The thing is and i know all mens private parts are different, but his seems very wide and it hurt when he put it in me,and when i tried on top i just couldnt seem to do it, and when i sucked him off well that was normal but his balls seemed a lot skinner then the other guys ive been with and actually felt well you know lolSorry its hard for me to explain,Anyway with the other guys ive been with have cum not right away but after a few minutes,And with this guy with all the 3 times i have slept with him he has NEVER cum where me i did quiet a lot lolAnd i did actually say to him am i no good as he did sound like he was enjoying himself but i always thought guys cum and well this guy never, Is there something wrong with me or him from him not doing this he has said he loved shagging me but i also even asked if he had the snip but i dont think that would make much difference to that much Please advise me am i crap ?or is this normal in some men ?Thank you for reading xjox Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): maybe he was scared to get you pregnant. nothing is wrong with you.
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reader, AuntSarah +, writes (11 March 2010):
It's obviously not you, or he wouldn't have bothered trying to sound like he enjoyed it. No idea what his issue is, maybe you're too tight for him or something. He's probably embarrassed. It must be something embarrassing or he would have told you by now i think. If you really like the guy make sure he's in a good mood and approach it sensitively. If not, just enjoy the sex and don't worry yourself about it!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 March 2010):
It's not you. As I've often said, about 99.9% of the time it isn't the woman. It's more likely that he's stressed or worried or something. But it's not you.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (11 March 2010):
 Yes its normal not all guys will be able to ejaculate, there are loads of reasons why not. You will also find that penis and testical size varies in different men.
Sex is not done by an instruction book, you have to learn and find your own self and find your own pleasures (and his).
If a guy breaks up with you because of a bad session in the bedroom then sorry to say but he's not worth keeping anyway. If a guy truly loves you it wont be an issue.
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