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writes:I was wondering if someone can help me. I cannot seem to keep thinking about my ex girlfriend. I have been dating another girl, and though I do not believe in cheating - I feel like I am, because I keep thinking about my ex girlfriend?I keep thinking that I am missing something in my current relationship.
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reader, CNKlives +, writes (16 September 2008):
Well you can do the "why" game...super easy and very very very effective. Your why question is "Why do you think you are missing something...." When you answer that put another why in front of it...(Ex: if your answer is because you miss your ex girlfriend, your next question should be "why do you miss your ex girlfriend"..if the ans is because she broke up with me unexpectedly..the next would be "why do you think she broke up with you unexpectedly") I think you get the point...keep going until the answer is something about you..and even when you get to yourself...keep asking why even if you don't think there is another why..just ask it. This will get to the real root of the problem and give you another perspective. Good luck..
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 Nope, you're just not ready to start dating yet. But you're ex is more than likely not interested in you anymore and has moved on. Sorry to be blunt. But you probably just need some you time on your own to get over it, before you try getting with someone else. Why do you feel the need to rush into something with someone else so soon? Onto a loser when you try that one. You're heads not in the right place mate.
C xxxxxx
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reader, ZeeZee +, writes (16 September 2008):
You know, I was just in the same situation. Maybe you haven't given yourself enough time to get over your ex. Did you have any kind of closure on your last relationship? Maybe try writing a note to your ex and throwing it away. Do you have anything of hers yet? Get rid of it. You'll never get over your ex completely without getting RID of her. Of course, sometimes it's good to hold on to good memories, but if it's effecting your life in a way that you view as negative then maybe you need to take additional steps to getting over her.
Or like I said, maybe you just need more time to yourself. People beebop from one relationship to another way too quickly anymore.
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