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writes:what the heck is wrong with me?? I cant get this guy outta my head. We were together but hes in the military so we called it a day as he was always going abroad. But we stay in touch. All I do is fantasise about sleeping with him. I think about it from the moment I get up to the moment I fall asleep. I dream about his kisses, the way we had sex and the way he would hold me through the night. And the weirdest part is the sex wasn't that great (he had premature ejaculation). I know this is probably lust, but I keep getting the urge to text him telling him I love him. I've told him that I miss him bad. But I don't think I even miss or love him, all I can think about is having sex with him. I don't dream about having a conversation with him or doing something fun together. I dream about having sex with him. Why is this? And how do I stop it?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 A lot of guys have premature ejaculation when they are young and inexperienced. Not a big deal.
You have feelings for him. That's clear.
It sound like you are not that close yet, and that you haven't spent a long time together - but you have strong feelings for him.
Frankly - I wouldn't tell him that you love him. That's too much too soon.
You haven't had a chance to develop anything other than an attraction to him.
Why not write to him and try to develop a real relationship? Getting to know someone isn't necessarily something that you need to do up close - otherwise the internet would be in trouble. And historically, soldiers have always been supported by letters from abroad; especially from loving female admirers.
You can consider writing him your civic duty!!!!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 August 2011):
 Next time you wake up from one of those dreams, instead of texting him, take matters into your own hands so to speak and just masturbate.
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