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*rincessjasmine
writes:I am doubting my love for my b/f because of questioning sexuality.I asked a question just a week ago and people said that I should stick with him (and i want to) because I love him, but I'm questioning that now. I'm questioning if i truly am attracted to him (eventhough a week ago i was head over heels, the questioning is getting the best of me).I just want to know if I like men...and I do, but I'm challenging that to know for sure if I do. I'm denying it to see if I truly do, and it's hurting my relationship. Also, this gay hotline thinks that I only have an emotional connection with him and not a physical one when I clearly loved him touching me (so they're wrong).My question is, do I need a break, even though I really don't want one at all?
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reader, Cyg79 +, writes (30 April 2008):
 Its hard to really tell what the question is. Your concerned about your sexuality and it is effecting your relationship. I guess the my question is what you want to do about it? Do you want to hold onto your love for your boyfriend or do you want to try and figure out who you are? Does one sacrifice the other? Also, what has truly made you question your sexuality? No one can tell you the answers, rather there something you must have the courage and desire to discover your self. Sometimes the answers are not as complicated as the questions make them seem.
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (27 April 2008):
princessjasmine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is, I know Im in love with him....Im crazy about him...its just the sexuality thing getting in the way of my perfect relationship...im head over heels for him...i cant let him go....i wud b miserable..we had a break and I HATED IT....I just am happy with him so y shud i do that?
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reader, gayuncleandy  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 This may seem hard, but enjoy your time of confusion if he is good to you. There is no harm in continuing things as they are for a small (underlined) time if there is nothing wrong. Your thoughts will become clear in time but don't give up what you have if you don't know what you're going to. Give yourself a break! That said, try to be honest with him in a tactful way (but not subtle as he prob won't get it lol). You as a human need a loving relationship, not a male or female one. Start with the home truths. Honesty, integrity and staying true to you, however confused you may be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): Dump him. Start dating women and see where your head lies, look you will never realise what you are if you don't do this. You can be in a jam or just go for it. You may regret it, but if you told your b/f how you feel maybe he agree to the terms
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