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writes: ok well my problem is that i left to go overseas for four months. now she told me that she had something to say that would bring me home, but i didn't want to hear it because i have important things to do right now. through friends i found out that she was pregnant, but i didn't believe that it was true. i think she was using that to get me home. now the problem is that she said to people that she had a miscarriage. now i don't know what to say to her when i see her in a few weeks, when she will obviously try to make me feel like the ass****, when really i've done nothing wrong except not wanting to hear secret, and that i'm 99.99% sure that she is lying.what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): thanks for that i was so confused. usally i wouldnt do that but im only 19 so i mean im not that experianced im actually visiting my family mainly my granparents they are sick and this is the last ill see them againg for sure. thanks for you help
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (10 August 2008):
I think if you are that sure she is lying--she probably is. However, you don't want to accuse her either because it could have happened. She's obviously doing it to get your (and maybe other's)attention if she was in fact lying. Just be supportive and don't question her. She may end up feeling bad about lying to you and admit to lying (highly doubt it though). Just watch out because if you have a feeling that she lied and in fact did, she will probably do it again. If she says she's pregnant again in the future while you're away, maybe ask her about doctor appointments, ultrasounds, etc.
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