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writes:I'm 18 and I am in love with my current boyfriend, well my ex boyfriend is my current boyfriend's friend. my ex doesnt know that 'm with him. My whole point is that I still can't get over him till this day. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months, but during that time i have been talking to the ex.I still have feelings for him but the thing is that he just talks to me whenever he wants to and then he disappears the next day. I need some advice to help me get him out of the picture.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (10 August 2008):
I wish I could write more. But at least to me, it's simple. Don't talk to him! Ignore his calls or tell him that you are seeing someone and out of respect for your current boyfriend you don't want to continue talking to him. Also, don't initiate conversation with him. A large part of why you haven't gotten over him is because you continue to talk to him. You get over someone much easier and quicker if you cut off all contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): you should flat out tell your ex that you have a boyfriend. you dont have to tell him who it is even though that would better. but either way you need to tell you ex that you found someone else. this will make your ex realize that its over. even if you have tried it already you need to say it with confidence.
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