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*cey lacey
writes: I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I still can't seem to stop messaging him and texting him... he always blows me off and says he's busy and can't talk etc... I can't blame him for not really wanting to talk to me but I can't seem to stop trying... every morning I think about texting him, then all afternoon and I constantly try to stop myself but sometimes I just cant help it! He gets soo annoyed and then I end up feeling so rejected every time.. we've talked about getting back together soon but he seems so happy and ok with his life with out and me I can't stand that he's fine while im miserable..! I want to stop talking to him to make him want me back too but I can't stop thinking about being with him and wanting to just talk... Any advice?? I'm going nuts! I'm frustrated!
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reader, acey lacey +, writes (18 December 2009):
acey lacey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys..! but why isnt he ready to be friends..? im reallly in love with him still. and im over the whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing but i really wana be friends with him and he wont let me in.. he says it hurts too much to just be friends.. why is that?
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reader, Wontonbomb +, writes (10 December 2009):
So you dumped him and now you're upset he doesn't want to talk to you? If my ex tried getting in contact with me i'd tell her exactly where to go. He was probably very hurt and rejected by what you did. You have to stop texting him not just for your own sake, but for his well being too. If you care about him (which you seem to do) please leave him alone to move on. If it's meant to be it's meant to be.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (10 December 2009):
delete his number
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): Stop texting him! Makes you look crazy. Blow him off! He will come running
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reader, leo3 +, writes (10 December 2009):
you are frustrated that he doesn't miss you as much as you thought he would, and if he does miss you then the fact that you keep texting him makes him feel like he has the power. so my advice would be to just FORCE yourself not to talk to him, ignore him completely, if he texts you blow him off like he's been blowing you off. let him think (even if its not true) that you are perfectly fine without him. this will drive him just as crazy as it is driving him. hope this helps good luck!
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