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writes:Howdy...So I'm in a long distance relationship with another woman and I have been for quite a while. I love when she uses her tongue and her mouth on me, and so I'd like nothing better but to reciprocate, yet... I cannot. We have tried about everything. We have tried it right after showering, we have tried it with edible oil, with dental dams and combinations of aforementioned, but I really cannot. The smell of her makes me very nauseous, yet the times we have tried the dental dams, that wasn't really an issue. At the very same time, the dental dams were uncomfortable for both. They were tickly to her, and I didn't particularly like the taste nor texture of it either. She's not forcing me to do it, but we're getting married soon... I'd like to give her a mind blowing oral experience on our wedding night... I have promised her a hundred orgasms.
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reader, GeminChanel  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 You make her vag sound nasty. Vagina's are the most beautiful part of a woman. It came natural for me. My mouth waters just thinking about eating. I'm hungry now. Lol jking. It doesn't make you less of a lesbian, but thats what we lesbians are known for. Muff munching is our occupation at the Lesbian Circus. I can see if you do it and it doesn't get you off, but if it makes you sick to your stomach, sorry Hun. I remember my gf didn't like the fact that I'd get soaked when she'd touch me and tease me. She had the nerve to get a paper towel and wipe me dry before she went down on me. It hurt my feelings and had me dry through out the rest of our session. I almost broke up with her bc of that. That was the first time I had someone do that to me. Have you ever spoken to your partner about your feelings? If you have, how did she take it? Maybe she has an infection or maybe she has a distinct scent bc she's in the mood. Vagina's do have a distinct scent when a woman's in the mood. Even when she comes. The smell of sex! If you haven't had a chat with her about this issue, you probably should. Good luck on the muff munching babes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): I didnt realize that this was your first relationship in which u preformed oral sex on a woman. For some its an acquired taste/smell and the more you do it the better and easier it gets. Im a bisexual woman and for me it came very naturally. I find it such a turn on. I salivate just thinking about being between a womans legs. So please dont get offended bu t are you sure you are rly a lesbian? Sometimes it takes sex to realize your sexuality. If u are sure you are lez I would really urge you to just get into it make her nice and horny and just take the plunge. Its amazing when you make her cum its sooo satisfying. So take a shower set the mood and just do it. I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): Oh for goodness sake.
Have a bath together, wash each other, make it part of foreplay and then just do it!
Do you think giving a blow job is like sitting down to a meal of peaches and cream!!! Of course not. Its not what anyone would describe as the nicest thing you'd ever do. And semen can sometimes be quite pungent, but honestly, you put up with it because you want to show your partner a sexy time.
I don't know what you were expecting. Oral sex can be hard work, it can numb your mouth, strain your neck, and yes, the taste and smell can be a little off putting. BUT, its also a gift. Its the greatest gift you can give your woman. Not all sex is about you feeling comfortable, sometimes its simply about giving. The fact that you're struggling with giving this to her is a real indication of your own sexual hang ups and selfishness.
I honestly think you need to harden up.
And frankly, have you ever lasted on her more that a minute, because the longer you are there, and the more you tongue her, all that is on her is your own saliva. You just have to get past the first minute, and put your own feelings and selfish obsessive compulsive disorder aside. Sheesh.
I think you are being selfish, and weak. And personally, a really poor lover!
And, on a final note, if you're not willing to do it for her, how can you lay there and let her do it to you.She might be offering and be willing to give you the time of your life, but if you don't recipricate, be warned it will damage your relationship eventually.
Time to be a man I would say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): She does eat very healthy. She eats multiple apples and pears a day, and little or none of the 'bad food' mentioned.
She does shave as well, and we don't have a bath sadly enough, but we've tried right after swimming and that doesn't work either.
I wouldn't know if I could on another woman, really. I've never been with someone else but her.
So I'm kinda lost here...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): She does eat very healthy. She eats multiple apples and pears a day, and little or none of the 'bad food' mentioned.
She does shave as well, and we don't have a bath sadly enough, but we've tried right after swimming and that doesn't work either.
I wouldn't know if I could on another woman, really. I've never been with someone else but her.
So I'm kinda lost here...
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (17 June 2011):
Believe it or not, diet has a major effect on taste/smell. Have her eat a lot of fresh, non citrus, fruit, such as mango, apple, pears, and avoid highly acidic foods with vinegar or lots of citric acids, no sodas like coke, as they have, well battery acid. Give it about a week of good fruit, and avoid meats or fish, mostly fruit, nuts, basically a vegetarian diet (use beans & lentles for protein)--she can try it for just one week. After one week, see if it helps any. If it does, there you go. If it doesn't work, at least she''s been eating healthier for a week.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): Have you performed oral on other girlfriends in the past?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): Hmm you probably shouldnt have made that promise. Have you tried it after she has gotten out of a bath? Not a shower. A bath? Does it really smell that bad? Im bisexual and have had quite a few women in my life. But it shouldnt smell that bad. Sometimes it can taste a bit like iron but thats it. I always bathe and shave b4 i will allow anyone going down on me. Maybe shaving or trimming would help? i hope that helps.
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