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writes: Need help. Ok my bf told me he wanted me to come home. But how ever there is a little problem - his ex is still staying with him . He told her that she had a month to find a job and get her own place. Again another problem it was my idea to give her a month any way, I wish I wouldn't have said anything because she to has feelings for him as well and really doesn't want to move out. Even though she knows that he wants to be with me. So one night I wanted to go home with him and he said ok let me just call her and tell her that I'm bringing you home with me. Well she didn't like that at all because when we got there she was not happy. So what i want to know is if he realy wanted me there should I just go ahead and stand my ground or wait and see if she even moves out. Or is he just telling me one thing and her another, whats the deal I want to know the truth. Please help me.
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reader, Tyedyedturtle  +, writes (17 June 2011):
 It's his place, right? Then he makes the rules. If she is temporarily staying there and he extended the generosity, then it is his call whether he brings a girl home. He pays the bills, right? Then he decides. You shouldn't be standing up. He should.
That being said, this seems fishy. If it has been past the time limit and you know there are some feelings there, it is time to ask the both of them what is going on. If she is getting upset about you being around, she is still attached and likely trying to win him over. So, what is going on at his place when you and your boyfriend are not together? He might be playing you...well, both of you. Have a sit down and start asking questions.
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