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writes:Six months ago i moved schools and ever since i came to my school i can't stop think about my RE teacher.She exemplifies kind and ever since i moved to the school she has been so amazingly helpful and sympathetic to my disability (very poor eyesight and involuntary eye movement) and even though i don't really like the subject i still look forward to her lessons because she is so enthusiastic. its not that i love her sexually, I'm 16 and a boy by the way, its more that she is just such a fantastic person. i haven't got any friends and she is the only person in the school who I'm really happy with.my dilemma is that we break up for final exams in six weeks and after that I'll never see her again and i feel like i need to do something to show her how much i appreciate her.i was thinking about writing her a note then slipping it into my RE book when she takes it in at the end of the year but i don't know if that would be enough.last year when she left for 3 months due to cancer i actually couldn't sleep at night and the day she came back in OK was one of the best in my life.the thought of leaving her is honestly killing me and i really need to tell her somehow, but I'm afraid of what will happen if i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011): But do you really need a repsonse? Wouldn't just letting her know be enough? Getting it off your chest in a sense? You'll get a response anyway, maybe not in a letter or her telling you something, but with the way she treats you. Her body language will tell alot. That would be enough for me as a response.
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reader, jonoc5 +, writes (13 April 2011):
jonoc5 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionas time goes on i'm basically getting more and more enamored with her. when i think abut it i realize that i pretty much love her.i know that being a teenager i can't really act on it so all things considered i don' know what to do. i've considered writing a song, getting her address from 192.com and writing her an actual letter and other things.i would tell her but I'm worried that she's tell my parents even after i left the school (when i would plan to tell her) adn that they or she would get the wrong impression.i really just want to do something that wil convey my feelings for her in a way that doesn't alienate her or freak her out. the one problem with doing something like that is not getting a response.if like people ave said i told her after a lesson then at least i could rest easy with a response but if i did write to her later then i doubt she would reply, making me spend the rest of my life wondering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): Hey kid, we would love an update on this! let us know :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): Hey mate, so you love this teacher and like crazy by the sounds of it. Good stuff :-) From what you've described, it seems that she has a wonderful heart, I'd probably fall in love with her too if I met her.When I was about your age I got into trouble with a teacher at school, we were playing football at lunch time and being the clown that I was, I kicked the footy in a direction where I shouldn't have, anyway a teacher had seen this act of naughtiness of mine and told me off. This teacher just happened to be the one I was TOTALLY in love with. Trying to be tough in front of my mates I replied in an arrogant manner (somehow thinking I would impress her?? - what an idiot I was) and I insulted her in some way, can't remember exactly what I said but it was really dumb of me!So then it was time for my punishment, a 2 page apology letter, to be written after school during detention!! I don't know what overcame me but I took this opportunity to write her a personal letter rather than a some bullshit generic apology text. I did of course apologize for my arrogance but I wrote her what I truly thought her, what for a wonderful and inspiring person that she was, about her kindness and attentiveness, I described her soul in a rather romantic way and even emphasized her graceful beauty. Without directly or literally writing it, the letter in its whole conveyed my love for her. Anyhow this letter which was actually a bit more that 2 pages, obviously struck her in some way. Ever since that moment, the student-teacher relationship between us was TOTALLY different. Every time we spoke she treated me as an adult and not as a student. She would make direct eye contact during class, not in a “I want you boy” lustful way but in a way that I can’t really describe. If we walked past each other in the corridor, she would look and a smile in a way that I also can’t describe. This new “connection” between us generated feelings inside me that were just so overwhelming.However to this day I have absolutely no idea what her feelings or thoughts were about me… and I never will know… there could have been nothing… but there could have been something….Slip that note in your RE book, do it! Really you need to do that!!! cos if you don’t, you’ll regret it for many years to come! Nothing can go wrong, don't be afraid, if she is the sweet hearted person that you describe, then she'll appreciate it. I'm not saying that she'll fall in love with you (although you never know your luck ;-)) but she'll see you in a different light...Put that note in your RE book!!!
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (25 March 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,
Sweeeeeeeeet you take RE I took that for my GCSE looool!
Awwww that is sooo sweet that you like your RE teacher. Honestly I think maybe you should try and make new friends that are around your age because teachers need their space sometimes.
I think what you could do is that you could get her a card with a poem in it that you can write about how you feel when she is leaving. Or you could write a letter you all that kinda sweet thing!
Or you could talk to her personally and tell her that your going to miss her and maybe get her email address so you guys can still be friends and keep in touch.
Your not alone remember that! Your never lonely you can potential friends! Honestly who wouldn't want to be friends with a guy like you, your personality stands strong!
Go out there and grab a few friends, laugh out loud and do your RE teacher p-r-o-u-d-!!!!! :D
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck (especially for your exams!)
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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reader, Isis-Bree  +, writes (25 March 2011):
Don't be afraid to thank her. she will be very touched if you simply made her or bought her a thank you card. In it you could express how you have apreciated her kindness. It is okay too, to tell her that you think she is a good example and an awesome person. Tell her that she has made a difference in your life and that you will never forget her. If you can afford to then also maybe just give her a little chocolate (small gift) or something. Good luck !
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