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writes:Hey I could use some help, i have a friend. We are really close. im only 14, but i have been through a lot in the past months, and he is the only one who has stuck by me. We have been flirting a lot lately. At first he was acting funny and giving me a lot of mixed signals but now i feel he feels something for me even if it is just a tiny spark. We play fight a lot and sometimees we can get a bit close, he also sometimes starts to gently rub his leg against mine or his hand against mine, i didn't think he realized he was doing it. But now im pretty sure he does. Sometimes when i'm with him the tension between us is just immense. i feel like he wants me to lean in and kiss him and i feel like i should. Because i fancy him a bit but i really want to wait untill im 16 to have a proper boyfriend, but when i'm with him sometimes i feel like he makes everything bad seem irrelevant. />We are going to the fair on saturday it's just going to be the two of us. we are probably going to be on a lot of rides on our own. Should i make the first move ? or should i just leave things and see what happens? should i wait untill im 16 or should i push things forward ? i dont want to scare him away as hes my best friend any advice ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAhh thankyou very much. I will wait and just let him decide what he wants to do, he isnt normanlly shy around girls and he normanlly never holds back if he has got something to say. But thankyou :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 Go to the fair and see what happens. Don't rush things, you may blew it. Not that the woman is never allowed to make the first move. But here the boy is young, he is surely immature and probably confused, shy and awkward around girls in general. Don't make his homework for him :)- let him figure out by himself what he is supposed to do to woo you, and most of all let him figure out if he is interested in you enough to overcome embarassment, doubts and perplexities he may have.
Also, you say that in the past he has been giving you "mixed signals " and, sorry but mixed signals = no signal, when people are ready for something the signals are very clear. Recently you sense things have changed , and that may be the truth.. or just your wishful thinking.
Give him time and ways to show you IF things have really changed.
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