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female
age
41-50,
*ootyboot
writes:So....I'm a 28 yr old female, and I've never had an official boyfriend! I've dated a lot, I get asked out frequently, I like to think I'm pretty and funny and interesting and all that jazz, but never have I had the pleasure of having a real, deep relationship with a man. 2 years ago I was "with" a guy for about 9 months, but he would never make it official and then moved away and that was that. He's the only guy I've ever been in love with, but it wasn't even a real thing and I don't think he was ever in love with me. So what is my problem?! I know that maybe I'm a bit picky, and to be honest, I haven't met a guy in a few years that has made my heart truly flutter. I do give guys a chance though. The guys that I end up liking after the first few dates end up disappearing, the ones I don't care for keep bugging me and that's the pattern. I'm not clingy or nutty. I'm independent and I like to do my own thing. But it's a very lonely existence since most of my friends are involved with someone. I feel like I'm missing out big time.So any tips, advice, and info would be appreciated. Should I just date someone that I'm not that into so I don't end up alone as a crazy old cat lady? I'm starting to panic a little bit at this point in my life since I'm getting closer to 30 and all...help! I don't want to be a pitiful spinster lady!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, aebniala  +, writes (9 August 2011):
You mite be to peaky or the guy you are hoping for, is not born yet. To be serius, stop looking for him, he will find you. Dont stop living please yourself, enjoy life. your not stopping youself from going out, that good, maybe he is somewere in traffic of life, eventually ill fing you.
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