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writes:Hi my boyfriend when out of the country last March due to his dad being in COVID-19 we agree to email each other while he is away the recent email I received from him is May 26 which he told he will let me know first when he is coming back and then i sent few emails for June to catch up with him but he hasn’t replied yet. I’m worried something happened to him any advice? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2020): Are the overseas phone-charges so costly you can't make just one call to see if he's okay? Do you know any of his other relatives or siblings you can call to check on him?
I'm sorry, but these aren't times you'd just go silent without a word. There are people who'd worry about you! I don't know of any country that would disallow phone communication. Travel-bans yes, but phone-calls...no!
It would leave one to wonder if this was his excuse to breakup with you? It's been a whole month, and not one word. Let's hope he's fine in any case. I hope you will hear from him soon! It's cruel to leave you wondering and worried. It is possible he got sick too; so you should contact his other contacts to see if anyone knows anything.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (15 July 2020):
 I am puzzled why, in this day and age, you would not be in contact via other means of communication. Who in a relationship communicates by email, let alone ONLY email? Why would you not text or phone him?
My gut feeling would be your boyfriend went to be with someone else (possibly a wife you know nothing about?), hence the lack of contact and only communicating by email.
As yourself seriously if this doesn't all sound rather suspicious.
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reader, Justryingtohelp +, writes (15 July 2020):
Have you no other way of contacting him? I find it strange you only communicate by email. Is he really your boyfriend? If so I would read into his silence that your relationship is in the past. Not impossible something has happened to him but far more likely he doesn't have the manners to keep in contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2020): OP, there is much that you have not told us. Did his Dad actually contract covid 19? To what nation did your Bf travel? Is your Bf deployed in the US Military, or is he a civilian traveler? Do you have his Dads address or phone number? Your Bfs wireless phone number or his hotel address? If he is a civilian, and you fear that he may be a victim of covid 19 or of foul play, contact the US Embassy in that nation, to where he traveled! Are you completely certain, that he intends to return to the USA and/or to you? OP, I pray that he is safe and well, and may GOD return him, to you, in like manner! Blessings!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2020): Thank you for all your replies.Yes i texted him and call him but left voicemail , i wonder if something bad happen to him on his last email he assure me he let me know when he will be back but he hasn’t communicate to me after that his family went to korea to visit dad due to COVID19
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2020): Surely if he is your boyfriend you would have at least one other means of contacting him, e.g. by phone, text, letter, via a relative or mutual friend? It seems very strange that he would leave and you only agree to email. Does he have other family who might be looking after him if hes sick? Could you contact them? If your relationship wasnt serious then I think you should probably just consider that it's over after so much time with no contact.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 July 2020):
 I will second Kenny's questions.
If you know his address, send him a snailmail letter.
If you know his phone number call him!
Also what country is he in?
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reader, kenny +, writes (14 July 2020):
 Has he got a mobile phone that you could text or call?.
Do you know any of his friends or family that you could also call or text to see if they have heard from him?.
Did he give you an address of where he was staying when he went out of the country?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2020): I would probably consider you both broken up.
If you were in any kind of meaningful relationship he would have made an effort to keep in touch with you.
I think you deserve better than this.
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