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writes: Ever since my ex boyfriend i have been getting unwanted sexual thoughts about anyone. I would never ever act on it but i even get them for a kid i babysit who is 1. I think i only get them for him though because when i was 5-7 i got on top of another kid who didn't know or was sleeping (i forgot) and i might have humped and when i was 8-10 i put my chest in my younger cousin's face who is 7 years younger. i can't get past that so now i have these thoughts. It is definetly effecting my relationship with my boyfriend, friends, and family so how do i get past this. Is this normal to even get those unwanted thoughts about kids or family or friends? On other websites a few people called me pedophile or a wh*re. I was a KID though!!!!! Can someone please help with all this?I really need help with it because i feel like i have to tell any boyfriend i have because i think if they knew they wouldn't want to be with me. I know i am obsessing too much. I went to a councelor and she said it was normal so don't worry about it but i still am. I feel like i have to tell everyone or they would think less of me if they knew.Ever since my ex boyfriend, i have been getting these thoughts and i remembered the past from when i was a kid because he was so controlling and made me tell him EVERYTHING. It's effecting my every day life knowing i did that as a kid and knowing i get those unwanted thoughts. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): u have to pray to jesus about this he is here for u ,and get in the word of god and look up every scripture about the mind and do what the lord sais to every day have faith in the lord and fight against the devil with prayer and gods word. the devil wants u to believe that u are a descusting person dont except it ,u have no desire to do these thoughts im sure its hard but fight read 2corinthians10 the whole chapter jesus loves u!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): I know this is an old post but I'm answering it anyways.
yOu just can't accept the fact that you were a highly sexualized child. You're family and your sexually repressed culture have shamed you so badly that you really believe what you did was sexual deviance. Dryhumping some other child when you were a child is totally natural, you didn't have the knowlege to know if it was socially acceptable so you acted on a biological impulse to get off.
Stop taking yourself so seriously, and start reprogramming your way of thinking about what sex is for. You are not sick, you are a victim of a truley sick culture. And get rid of your conrolling boyfriend you idiot.
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reader, pica +, writes (8 December 2006):
Please help yourself. As Irish says we've been through this before and a number of us gave you good advice. We can't help beyond that I'm afraid - it's up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): All I have to say here..is you have posted this question many times before and it has been answered. And everytime you were given excellent advice. No one on this site can help you with your problem, dear...you need counseling. I have my doubts you really saw a counselor. No counselor in their right mind, would state that your thoughts of child molestation 'was normal'. Either you are doing this as a 'joke' on us all or you really are a very troubled person. Please continue to seek help from the professionals. Start with your family doctor and insist strongly, he gets you the help you need. If in fact, you are having thoughts like this with a child you babysit..then stop babysitting this child today and any other children you might have in your care. I hope you do the right, responsible thing. Take care and good luck.
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