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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Ok ... so I have been with P for 7 years on and off,lived together again... on and off .... this year I told him to move out on his own and he did ! Long story .. but bottom line ... really mean to my kids !Since he moved out ... huge turn around, like wow !Treats me and like a Princess and loves the kids ???Is he for real do you think ???? Seems to be ?? a couple of friends say they think he has changed and a couple say forget him !!! While he was gone I meet F and fell head over heels !Also a amazing, driven, attractive,and clever man..So now I have two men I don't want to lose, P is now amazing with the children and F also digs my children too !Do I stay with the one I think I know P ? or do I bite the bullet and go with the new F ?Please help... totally confused xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): Thankyou .. I agree with you ... my kids have only known P.... untill now.I have not been with any other "uncle".But the kids have meet F only once and I have dated him only on outings when I have had a babysitter !Your comment was truthful and I liked it.. thankyou I needed someone to tell me I am lying to both of these men about how I feel... I guess you do when your confused ????? I don't really know because I havent been in this situation before.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 I expect your children are confused too! I dont agree with children meeting loads of different 'uncles' its not teaching them anything for the future. And its not fair on them when you decide one of the guys is a gonna.
As to who you choose, only you can decide that. Maybe none of them if one doesn't stand out more than the other and you're lying to them both.
C xxxx
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