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*irus1902
writes:I have a boyfriend.We made acquaintance in my country. We are the same nation, but his identity is another country. Now,he is going to leave for his country. He asked me to keep waiting for him one year, he will back to my country next year. He is very honesty, which is why he attracted me when we met the first time. I do trust him what he said and his promise. I really love him. He is the first man i wanna marry him. But sometimes i doubt do, i keep waiting him for at least five years. We are both students. I am a college student, so i am going to work in next year. At that time, my relatives will ask me to look for a boyfriend. Im not already prepared to tell them that my boyfriend is a foreigner and we will be apart for 5 or more years. And we just see each other only 1 time in whole year. I do love him. However, i indeed feel pressure caused by time, distance and his family background, his identity is really sensitive so that i didnt tell my friends i have a boyfriend. Reply to this Question
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reader, virus1902 +, writes (10 June 2010):
virus1902 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you very much. You have an excellent answer. Only I know myself what i want. Just i havent got a decision
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reader, Kama  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 If the love is very strong, maybe you should wait. If the love is just there, and not very strong, maybe you should refuse to wait. One thing is certain: that is a LOT of your sex life to sacrifice for someone. I don't understand your cultural situation very well, but do understand that it is only you who can make this decision. You're pretty young, so you probably don't know how much love can change, and how new ones can come up unexpectedly. Most people I know, in my culture, would NOT wait. But if you know you will love him forever, maybe you should. Only you know the answer.
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