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writes:HiI have had sex 5 times in a single week with a man who already has a girlfriend.The sex was suprisingly very good and he wants to see me again(obvisouly). I just wanted to have fun and all but now I am not sure whether it's okay to continue down this line, especially that he has a girlfriend.What do you think?Thx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): As long as you dont fall for him, [can't see how you can as personally I would lose respect for a guy like that] THEN carry on if you want. But I think your low
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (30 April 2008):
 I hate women who screw over other women. Its just all messed up. He has a girlfriend, I could maybe understand if you were madly desperately in love with him and couldnt live without him but you're not. Its just sex.
Hes not the only man in the world who has a penis or knows how to have sex so leave him and his poor girlfriend alone and find a single guy to have fun with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): Thanks for your replies.
Yes you are right. I thought it would just be a one-off but then we kept calling/ texting and seeing each other.
Also after sex, I think he feels guilty or sth, that's why he quickly packs his stuff and leave. He did mention to me he doesn't want to 'over-do' me.
I am OK with casual sex but I find this a bit complicated.. Tho worth saying I don't sleep with any guy. And before him, haven't had sex in 5 months..
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 hi there, dump this guy, please think of the other girl, one of my very close friends got very badly hurt, she was dating this guy for 4 years and she found out 2 years of her relationship, he was seeing this other girl, this other girl called and told her. My friend was brokenhearted and she is such a beautiful person and i could not understand how he could could be so cruel and lie and deceive my friend like this. He declared his undying love for her, if a person can do this to someone they love, i would not like to think what he could do to other people. I would like to think "what goes around, comes around" get out, dont get involved with this terrible guy. He will do the same to you. Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): do not be like this towards yourself treat yourself better and not be his toy on the side that's all he consider you as so you need think about it when the tables turn what if you was with a man and he messed with other girls how would you feel?
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reader, rproctor  +, writes (30 April 2008):
A quick word of advice: What he will do with you he will do to you.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 If they aren't living together and don't have children, I don't think that you are breaking up any commitments. If you did know that he was engaged, living together or had a child with this girlfriend, you should probably not be involved with him. That always puts you in the position as the other woman. This is just a guy who has multiple girlfriends. If you like him and the sex, and it's still fun for you, I don't see it as a problem. BUT if you do think it's becoming a problem for you in any way, like say writing in to a site for some reason, either because you feel guilty, or it feels wrong, or you are falling for him and becoming possessive and want him to dump his other girlfriend, THEN it's a problem. The problem rests with YOU, What Do YOU think? Have you expectations changed? If you are falling for this guy and your in too deep, this could be very hurtful and messy for you, just an observation...
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 April 2008):
Imagine how hurt and betrayed his girlfriend will be when she finds out her boyfriend has been sleeping with some slapper.
Do you really want to be that slapper?
Is your self esteem so low that you are happy to be used by a guy who has no respect for you or his girlfriend?
Do the decent thing and cut contact with this guy. Find yourself a guy who isn't going to treat you as a free prostitute.
Good Luck!! xx
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