I always used to turn boys down but now I am ready for a boyfriend! How do I let them know that I wont reject them this time?
Q. Basically, I'm a decent looking girl who has always frequently been asked out by boys. However, having just hit the age of 15 (which I consider old enough to have a boyfriend) - I also had enough self respect to refrain myself from the previous ...
A. 27 October 2009: Hi,
you shouldn't be thinking of desperation.
By doing so, your body naturally behaves so.
You may attract the wrong kind of attention instead! Flings, fooling around kind of behaviors from boys.
Why don't you take it natural?
I am sur... (read in full...)
Is this guy using me? Or does he like me back?
Q. Ok so theres this guy who ive known for years and i didnt relise how i felt for him til not so long back wen sumthing happened to him and it hit me hard. Basically i love him but i dont know if he feels the same because he laffs at me wen he's ...
A. 27 October 2009: firstly, i feel that you should never go intimate unless in a relationship..
secondly if he is upset because of this then his feelings to you are questionable.
Focus on building the emotional aspect of this and see how it goes.
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Is raising my voice to him a legitimate reason for his physical attacks on me?
Q. After being verbally beaten down - and occasionally physically attacked - I have nothing left except for a hollow-feeling body. After one year of being accused of being a wh*re, a liar, and a cheater I am, I finally started to fight back and t...
A. 26 October 2009: Nothing warrants a physical attack.
PERIOD ... (read in full...)
I have really fallen for him but I'm scared it might be too late!
Q. Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He ...
A. 26 October 2009: 1) you said he has a girlfriend now? ok.. what then do you hope to achieve when you speak to him.
2) You mentioned he is handsome now. Will you fall for him if he still looks the same?
Ask yourself these questions first. again and again.. what... (read in full...)
Am I being too serious too soon?
Q. Hi, I have started seeing this guy only recently (2 mths) but feel that I am falling for him. We have recently had a couple of conversations which have gone along the lines of him telling me that he thinks I am into the relationship much more ...
A. 26 October 2009: For starters, what do you know of him?
Is he into real dating? ie. the "serious" stuff?
If not, you got your answer.
If yes, perhaps you are a tad bit too eager. How has the past 2 months been?
What do you two normally do?
Cheer up and... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my husbands depression? I feel more like his carer than his wife
Q. My husband has been depressed since 2005 ended, I've constantly tried and tried to seek help for him but he has so far refused to get it over the past four years. He keeps on insisting to me that September 2004 to the end of 2005 were the "golden...
A. 26 October 2009: Hmmm. Is there a reason for his depression?
Like, out of job, cheated by friends, etc
By the way, medicine do not have much use for depression if the person himself do not want to take control i believe..
therefore, what is bothering him?... (read in full...)
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