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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have problems talking to girls. I guess its that i am very shy and always think of things that can go wrong if i do talk to her. I am scared of rejection and of being embarrassed. I dont think i am that bad looking, and girls talk to me alot, but i have a hard time asking the ones i really like out.... What can i do to change this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Thanks xxsecretsxx, i truly appreciate your advice and i will try it. Thank you very much..
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Try to make an easier approach around it. Say little things to clue the girl in that you like her.
Like "your hair looks good today.." etc.
And you can try the simple approach of asking one out to a movie that they said they want to see, but do it in a friend like manner if its more comfortable.
"I really want to see that!" Girl
"Hey, I was planning to go Friday, want to go with me?" then grab something to eat afterwards so you can discuss the movie and possibly other things you have in common.
Everyone is scared of rejection. it is what makes you human.
try somethings out.
good luck!
and if you want to ask anything you can message me.
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reader, Heart1018  +, writes (22 October 2008):
act like your the man. Act like you've been with girls hundreds of times and that your basically the shit. Dont act like an asshole though, still be kind. But just be comfortable and act like yourself!
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