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41-50,
*enny_lane
writes:i'm seeing someone new now. i've just come out of a 2 year relationship.............i can't stop ringing him, texting him all the time. how do i get a handle on the crazy????
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reader, penny_lane +, writes (1 January 2010):
penny_lane is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit was the new guy i was ringing all the time and we're together now about a year!!
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 I think it really depends on how he feels about you as to wether you come across to him as 'crazy' or wether he is getting all warm and fuzzy on the inside about your apparent devotion to him.
If you can control yourself tho, try, (at least for one day), limiting initiating contact. If he starts initiating it instead, it is prob a pretty good indication that he wants and enjoys that degree of contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Hey, I think it's will power more then anything else. You need to be in control of your actions.You need to tell yourself even if i do text him he won't reply back so why bother or even if i ring him he's not going to answer. And by you doing ringing and texting him your making yourself into a fool. Once you have that frame of mind you will stop doing it.
Maybe delete his number from your phone and wait for him to get in touch, focus your energy on to other things..theres more to life then this person you have to believe that..good luck..x
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reader, penny_lane +, writes (22 October 2008):
penny_lane is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit's the new guy i can't stopp contacting!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Why should you go out of this craziness...........,let yourself to enjoy this craziness because you care for him and may be love him too.This is the BEAUTIFUL side of your relationsip. Good luck
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Are you calling your ex or him?
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Thanks a good question hun.
You miss the familiarity of the first guy. You obvious cared for him a lot and it is hard to let go, but before you make yourself out to be a stalker or a crazy ex, you should just say good bye and continue on with the new guy.
Missing him is fine, but it wiill only hurt worse if you continue to contact him.
best of luck!
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