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writes:hi every one i am a guy 19yo and my height is 5`3.4` . i am very depressed from my self , my all friend more then 6` and when i am sitting with them i look like a small kid but i am a student of first year and good in studies , i don't know what to do i am so nervous due to my small height i am loosing my confidence and my result
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): height doesnt matter at all to a lot of people. my boyfriend is 20 years old and 5' 5" while im 5'7". just dont think about ur height as being short, just ignore it, cause there is someone out there shorter than you and im sure they feel like you do. but theres no reason to
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): Height shouldnt matter. If girls dont like you for what you look like, then their shallow. Honestly, I find it sexy if a man is 4ft tall, but acts if hes 6ft, which is what you should do. Im not saying to act all macho because thats a major turn-off. Just be yourself, and dont let anything that anyone says to you affect you. Its all about your personality. Stop feeling bad about yourself. Everyone has flaws. :]
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 There isn't anything you can do about your height, you are still growing up until you are around 23 years of age, you may have a growth spurt later on.
What you can do is stop trying to get your self esteem from how other's judge you or what you are projecting onto them as judging you. Height is never as important as what you can achieve intrinsically in your life, such as being a well rounded decent human being.
Stop beating yourself up, that is all you can do, pay more attention to your friends when you are around them, they aren't your friends because of your height, stop internalizing everything you hear about the problems of short men. Tom Cruise an American Actor is your height and that hasn't hurt his EGO in the least, he's been married to Three very Beautiful Women who tower over him, apparantly he likes tall gals.
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reader, Alittlebroken  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Hi,I just wanted to say that there is nothing wrong with being small in height. I have a friend who is your height and he actually found a girl that is shorter than him and they recently got married! They are so cute together! Also look at celebrities like Tom Cruise- he went out with super tall Nicole Kidman and now he's going out with Katie Holmes who's also a giant! You should never let your height get you down, after all you can't change it; people get down about everything, their faces, their weight, everything. You are normal as everyone has insecurities but do not let this hold you back.I am quite tall and have always found shorter guys very sexy and have only had one boyfriend that is taller than me. I am now going out with a guy who is shorter than me but it doesn't bother me or him, we are both attracted to each other and that is all that matters!Don't compare yourself to your friends, you stand out from them which is a good thing! Just concentrate on being comfortable in your own body and get confident with your personality; as girls care more about that than anything else!
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