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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I feel ridculous. I want to start by saying I've never done anything like this before but I'm very concerned, ashamed, sad, and desperate. I have never had an orgasm. What is worng with me and how do I fix it?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Hi,
I had that problem for a while as well but found out,first of all you need to be completely relaxed and stop being self conscious. Secondly, you have got to make up your mind,you really want to come and put your all into it. Thirdly, it helps to stimulate your clitoris while having sex. If you feel shy about that then try the doggy style, that way he doesnt know what you are doing. Goodluck.Anita
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (18 March 2008):
 You can't fix an orgasm or lack of having one, dearie.
You are tensed up from your first time and expecting too much right away.
Relax and let nature take its course; practice, practice, practice...SAFELY, that is. Some women never have an orgasm, but if you learn to masterbate you can find the right G spot (usually the clitoris, for starters) you'll soon me whirling from the ceiling by the electric fan!!!!
Give it time and with the right partner, you'll get there.
Gena
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Hi Hunny
It takes a woman sometimes clitirol stimulation to reach orgasm, hunny Im going to find you a link ok to try and help in anyway poss....
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm
http://shop.libida.com/pre_orgasmia.asp?affiliate=google11&gclid=CN6C8sXIlpICFQ5HQwodTyVB-Q
Hi hun I found you two sites that should give you a mountain of info and dont worry its not unheard of but its not something you cant do anything about I hope these help love TAKE CARE WITH MUCH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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