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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:We have been together for nearly a year... I am 21 years old have a good job and live by myself. He is 28 still lives at home he has a job but it pays very little. I keep all my money in a drawer and the other day when i went to go and take some money there was only a £50 note left and im 80% sure there was a lot more than that. I can be very careless with money and im always spending without thinking i am not sure how much i thought was there but im think there was around £300-£400 in the drawer. I know i didnt take the money out with me and he was the only person in my house that day. Just before he came round i took £100 out of the draw and paid some bills im pretty sure after i had taken this out i would have noticed that i only had £50 left. I have confronted him about it and ive broke up with him... He denied it and says i must have misplaced it and he cant believe i would accuse him of stealing from me and he would never steal from the woman he loves. But he is always complaining about money issues etc im not 100% sure but i know there was more money than what was left. I never thought he would do this to me that why i am starting to doubt myself over how much was there. This has completely ripped my world apart i feel so betrayed and hurt that the man i trusted in my life and home could do this to me. Part of me doesn’t think he has done it the other part is saying there was more money than that in there. He has never asked to borrow money from me and he has always taken me nice places and done sweet things for me even though it has left him broke. But where else could the money have gone?? I am so heartbroken im literally crying myself to sleep at night.. (im usually a very strong person). The thought of not having him in my life kills me but if he has done this i can never forgive him for that. And even if he hasn’t i don’t think our relationship could last with no trust.He said he will even take a lie detector test to prove it wasn’t him... Even his family are hurt that i have accused him of stealing from me. The fact i never knew exactly how much was there is what’s is making me doubt it but that money was there to get me through the next few weeks so i know i had more than that... i just don’t know what to think!! Am i just doubting myself because i dont want to believe he has done this ???
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reader, cheers  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 There's a safer place to put money. Definitely not inside drawer but deposit at BANK. Pls open account asap and put it there. Make an effort & be discipline. the points is to track how much money you have and how much you'd spend already.got it?
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