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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My bf cums after about 5 mins. I do not cum during sex [never been able to] so I would enjoy sex for a bit longer as that's where my pleasure comes from, not an orgasm. We have sex most days, but it does not make him last any longer. I would rather he didn't have to go off and wank first as I feel like this spoils the mood and besides I want him to orgasm when having sex with me as his pleasure turns me on. Is there anything we can do? I don't want to offend him, so I do not moan, but I would like him to last a bit longer. I am not one for those girls who wants one hour sex or whatever. Even 10mins would make me happy.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (10 September 2011):
 Your boyfriend needs to understand something very simple and universal: It is that women require more time (than men) to become aroused and reach orgasm. Few young men, perhaps even older men, understand this or really know what to do about it. Simply stated, the solution is simply to spend more time and effort to stimulate the woman. There are several ways to achieve this, but all boils down to more foreplay. Techniques include more romance, patience, gentle fondling, G-spot massage, cunnilingus (oral sex) and more. The man must learn whatever his woman desires and learn to apply with patience. All I can add is that it works, but I've described many techniques now archived on this Web site for anyone interested.
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