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writes:I have a wonderful friend. She's clever, funny, attractive and unfortunately another good friend of mine's ex. There has been a lot of sexual tension between us for a long time now, and the other week, we ended up sleeping together. I felt guilty afterwards, but we agreed to just spend time together, keeping our urges in check and see how things pan out. We've had some great times together recently, and we're getting on famously. I'm just worried if I tell her how I really feel then I will lose her not only as a lover, but as friend, which would break my heart. I'm also worried that if she does feel the same way, what it will do to her ex/my friend when we tell him. I really am stuck on this one.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 October 2008):
 I wonder why you have a greed to keep things the way they are when you obviously have feelings for her? Why not ask her out properly, instead of just hanging out together. I think that you need to talk things out with her. Call her up, ask her out, bring her flowers and take her for a nice meal. Tell her how you feel!!! Nothing ventured, Nothing gained. You can't hide your feelings forever.
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