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anonymous
writes:my girl has been cheating on me, i have caught her more than three time now, she saying that she will not do it again but she keep liyimg to me , im fed up ,what do i do?[Mod note: text was edited for clarity. I hope I got it right.]
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reader, kitty-cat=]  +, writes (28 June 2010):
![kitty-cat=] agony aunt](/avatars/4e276644-588c-43d2-bf37-fe35b92660b5.png) im sorry, i don't get how people can cheat... if she did it three times she is going to do it again. i hate to say this but she chose those guys over you, you deserve better. now choose yourself over her. hope you find someone who treats you right :)
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reader, NatashaHanson +, writes (28 June 2010):
 I think you should brake up with her, you desurvee more than thiss. If shee is cheating on youu even 3 timess then its ovious that she dosent love youu , sorry hunnii but i think you shouldd look for another girl :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Trust is one of the biggest parts of a relationship. Without it, there is no relationship. For someone to repeatedly violate that trust is not acceptable. I realize that you must care very deeply for this woman to have endured her cheating, but enough is enough. Find yourself a better woman who will be faithful to you. We all deserve to be with someone who makes us happy.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Take it from me....
RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Can't belive you came back after the first one... I'd be gone. She is not going to change. Don't believe her lies. Get out now before she gives you something you can't get rid of.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 June 2010):
 If it were me, the relationship would have been over at cheat number two. Well, actually, cheat number one, depending on the cheat motivation.
What do you do? You go find another girl who doesn't have an honesty problem or a taste for drama and other men. Say goodbye to this one, she's not going to change for you.
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reader, raiders +, writes (28 June 2010):
 You forgave her and gave her a second chance because you love her but when she cheated on you that second time you should have given her the boot, and you wouldn't have experience the 3rd time. I hope you learned your lesson this time and get rid of your cheating girlfriend.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (28 June 2010):
 My husband is constanly burning himself when he's cooking. He is not careful about it whatsoever, because he says eventually, his hands will be numb and he won't feel it anymore.
I don't know why you have such self-destructive behavior. Are you just waiting until you are so used to being mistreated, that you will become comfortable with it? Don't make that mistake. You're only logical option is to leave her.
~SY
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reader, soul83  +, writes (28 June 2010):
Firstly, tell me how long have you been together? The fact that you don't want to leave suggests serious self-esteem and attachment issues.
A relationship is built on trust. When that is violated, it's hard to get it back. It's possible for a man to give away too much of his heart to his beloved. That's a huge danger bacause it makes you look too wimpy and at the same time allows you to be treated like a doormat. Remember relationships 101? It's about proportional give and take.
Anyway I digress, I suggest you extricate yourself from the relationship ASAP. Get some counselling if necessary. Unfortunately money people do not know how to settle down and are driven by lust!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Strike three and she's out. Here's what you do, find the door and use it.
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reader, Hopeful13 +, writes (28 June 2010):
You know what to do. Either accept that she will continue cheating and break up with her and find somebody who won't cheat on you.
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