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writes: I met this guy online webite for teens this summer. We had so much in common. We are huge sports fans and we write for school papers. We are super involved in school and we've been talking ever since. We email very often. He lives about 4 hrs away so I haven't met him. He is going to college in the fall and he doesn't know where yet. It could be farther or closer to me.I have begun to have feelings for him...I don't know what to do or what he thinks. Any ideas? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, adorkable_gg +, writes (9 November 2007):
I for one think this is a potentially bad situation. Sure, you like him...or the idea of him. Truth be told, you can't know for certain WHO he is. Don't get your hopes up too high. Of course, if you insist on meeting him, go with a group of people, and meet some place public. Having friends there could also make it less nervewrecking for you. Before doing so, think hard about the decision you're about to make. If you decide not to meet him, you could spare yourself pain...or lose a possibly great relationship. If you choose not to meet him, make sure you let him down easy. However, if you choose to see him, I URGE YOU: do NOT go alone! You said you don't know what he thinks. Before you even waste your time, make sure he feels the same way. Best of luck! [=
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): All I have to say is don't meet him. It could end up bad. On the internet you can lie, it could be a 50 year old man. Just be careful!
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