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writes:im worried.I'm 17 years old, and i have had two sexual parteners. my ex boyfriend and my current boyfriend of a year and a half. he thinks there is something wrong with me.I have slept with only two people, and he has slept with about 6, so maybe he knows better than me....but bassicly..i have a really really high sex drive, i can cum up to 6 times when having sex. while most men like this, i assume, he thinks im going to ware myself out, and lose all sensation in my clit if i do this so much.... he thinks im only going to want to cum more and more and eventually im not going to be able to orgasm when im older....I am very worried. Is he right? hes a good bit older than be so i kind of assume he'd know these things. please let me know. I really dont want that to happen!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): What an unbelievable moron this boy is! I think perhaps he feels he simply cannot keep up with you, and possibly feels threatened. If that's not the case, I refer to my first statement.
I'm wayyyy into my thirties. I have the same, ummm, condition you do. Trust me when I say that you do not have a problem. We are the fortunate few with these multiple orgasms. Embrace, and enjoy.
However, I think it would be better for you if you were say, a married lady having these experiences with your husband. You'll find out later in life, that the relationship you're having now is just a bad warm up act. Sex with your husband puts all other sex to shame. It's so much better.
Look, there's always self-gratification. You won't have to deal with the stupid ramblings of a know-nothing.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 Right...
Well it happens you know. Had I known that eating all that icecream and chocolat would wear out my taste buds, I would never have eaten them, now I can't taste a thing.
I also regret going to Australia. Great sights, but sadly they wore out my eyes and now I am BLIND!
Mind you, there are good things as well, I stayed on my feet for so long, that now I can keep walking for days on end and never feel a thing.
Your boyfriend is an idiot. Wear out your clit? WTF?
Your body renews itself constantly anyway, so in a couple of years you won't even be you anymore, your entire clit will have been replaced.
So don't worry about wearing out your genitals, worry more about your boyfriend, what other pearls of wisdom has he told you?
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (22 May 2008):
 oh dear Lordi.
do excuse me a moment while i sew my sides back togehter.
you are not going to "Run Out" of orgasms.
your bf on the other hand may run out of pluck to keep his cock hard when he gets older though.
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reader, trixi +, writes (22 May 2008):
 your only 17 your bound to have a high sex drive all 17 year olds do.
not every woman can multiple orgasim including my self :(
so consider ur self extremely lucky!
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 No you won't "wear out". You just basically have multiple orgasms at the same time which is cool and he should be grateful for, I suppose he is doing something right lol. Even if you do have multiple orgasms at once it doesn't mean you are being promiscuous, it just means you enjoy sex.
If you ever feel like for having sex you are missing stuff (appointments, other family or couple activities) then you should examine this area of your life to determine sex addiction. If not, you are ok. Some women can have six orgasms in a single sex session and it is still a single sex session, so, don't worry about it. Have fun and remember to use condoms, even if he is the "love of your life". You are only 17 so you'd probably find 5 or 6 more "loves of your life" lol.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): no it wont affect you. you should consider yourself very VERY lucky!!! i wish i had those magical powers so that i could orgasm 6 times during sex. im lucky if i get to once!! your not in any kind of bad here, your just lucky!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): No this won't happen. It's a pile of rubbish. It is perfectly natural for you to have a higher sex drive than your partner, and no you won't tire yourself out with too many orgasms. There is no such thing losing sensation with too much sex.
There have been cases however, of young people who started sex at early age, or have had many partners, finding themselves bored of sex when they get older. A case of seen it all, done it all. They take a break from sex and develop their other interest that they missed out when they were younger and sexually promiscious.
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