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writes: hello. I have a really weird question to ask and I hope it gets posted.Here goes... I really need some advice with regards to a gay situation, I am male and I'd really like the advice of a "gay agony aunt" or someone that knows how hard and scary it is dealing with certain situations of dicovering who you are "being gay" and who you are trying to be, or covering up, someone that's not judgemental. I have a very delicate situation, I'm not implying that the other questions aren't. I really need some advice, but i'd like to discuss my problem with someone... I'm sure it will be best to be a memeber of dear cupid, but I'd just like to know that i'm not alone, and that I'll have someone to share the real me, and make me feel less afraid, and take the load of my chest.I really hope this gets through and I hope I don't come across as arrogant.Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, jess18maine  +, writes (18 April 2006):
 Hey Hun, you don't really state much about what u need advice on but I'm more then willing to listen. I have a quite a few gay friends and love them to death actully i think i love them more then my straight ones. But if this is about you cumming out after a straight diviorce them go for it, its got to happen sumtime... and the sooner the better because then you will have more time to be the real you... and if this is about u being unsure about your sexualty then try experimenting and go from there... So like i said i dont have that much to go on here but I can relate to almost ne thing so you can leave me a message on here... dearcupid just got that service up and going... I'm more then willing to listen and give advice...
GOOD LUCK in whatever it is thats going on.
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (18 April 2006):
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. Best for you to make some gay friends - if you are young, join a coming out group, or alternatively find a hobby like running, rambling, or something, and join a gay group. Then, you'll get to know other gay people in a non-club non-getting-off-with kind of way, and you'll start to appreciate just how normal it is. Once you relax, then you can just have "relationship problems" like everyone else - the sex of the person is irrelevant.
Good luck
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