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*heekyme
writes:My boyfriend split up with me the other day and then i got with this other lad J, and i was happy at first, but now im not too sure. Lately i have been feeling really depressed and sad and emotional and have lately been crying much more than i used to. I think it has something to do with my ex bf ,B.My ex bf wants me back and to be fairly honest i think i still love him, but i dont think i can trust him. When i first got with him i started to get depressed because i didnt no wether i could trust him. and then the other day we broke up and i was really sad. I'm so depressed and i wish i was still with my ex. What do you think is wrong with me, is it normal to feel like this after a stressful relationship, what should i do?It feels like hes going after my best mate. I'm thinking of dumping J because i still like B and getting back with B but im scared that i cant trust him. The question is what should i do because one minute i feel like i really still love B but the next minute i feel like i will be better off with J as i can trust him and i like him but J is always messin round and flirtin with other girls and B never did that when i was with him. I'm so confused please will some one help me and give me advice on what i should do ?
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 OK. i feel like this alot. its tough to pick and choose. when me and my ex broke up, there was her friend that i kinda liked and liked me back, but i realized i might want to go my ex after a while when she stopped acting so childish, and that going out with her friend would not only tear me and my ex's friendship apart but her and her friends. if you value your friendship with either of them, especially since it seems like u r flipping back and forth, it might be the best choice to wait a while, or look a different direction.
A second possible choice would be to stay close friends with them for a while, determine which one you like more, or if you see something else you like go after anything.
remember if you need anything, just message me. I hope everything turns out ok.
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