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writes:I befriended an very beautiful high end escort that I saw three years ago, while i was going through a divorce. At the time she needed a place to move and I offered my spare room. At first we were just friends. It was like that for a year and half, and then we stared to have casual sex which we still do. She has been seeing her on again off again boyfriend, and has started to date. All along she still works as a high end escort, and I even drive her to her dates. I feel that she never wants to hang out, do movies, go out to dinner, or work out-- we even have the same gym. she leave this for her other guy friends that she has made at the gym, and Im jelouse of this. What is the thing to do?
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reader, marre69  +, writes (29 December 2008):
This is a way for her to distance herself from her own profession and how sad it may sound there's no difference between the customers and you. I think that you can forget a relationship in this case or you'll have to work VERY hard for it still risking to loose it. And even if you succeed forget being jealous. It's just the way it is. Accept it.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 She seems used to use sex to get what she wants, either money or an apartment.
Frankly, stop being jealous enjoy the moment but be aware to her sex is just a tool, nothing more, nothing less. Use her like she is using you or get her out of your life if you can't accept those terms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): She's a hooker!! You are her roomate and driver. Stop doing her and find someone worthy of your time. What will you do when she gives you an STD.
I'm sorry but this is a no brainer. She doesn't really care about you. Please end it and tell her to move out so you can move on.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 September 2008):
Well it sounds like you are just a room mate to her.
Is she paying you rent? Helping out with the bills?
She was your friend and then you two had casual sex. That's all it ever was, you even say so your self.
The fact she still has sex for a living and has been seeing her ex is really none of your business.
I don't think you are going to get her to be your girlfriend so you need to work out if you can continue to live with her if it's going to hurt you to see her with other people.
If she's high end then she should be able to afford to rent a place of her own. She can claim it as a tax deductable as she's using it to work from.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 September 2008):
 Because of her work, she won't easily offer exclusivity to anyone. If that is what you want, then you're in trouble. Above all, because she has someone she calls boyfriend.
I'm afraid that either you accept her seeing other people, or you go away. I'm sorry to say this, but it doesn't seem like you're one of her priorities.
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