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writes: Hello, I am a confused girl about men. I cant decide who to stay with. my problem is I like men, and I like more than one.I loved one before for nearly 5 years. never cheated on him, he then left me to marry someone else.after him, I met nearly 3 men, one from university, one from work, one from the net, I slept with 3 of them, had relationship with them all, I enjoy sex with them to be honest.3of them love me. and now i must take descion. as each want to spend more time with me. and actually main problem one of them wants to marry me.i like them all, one from work and from uni, both are for fun no way to get married.net one, maybe. as my friends told me he is best one. he offered to marry me but not others.now, what do i do . if i said yes to him, what about others.i really like them all.the uni one says he loves me loads.how can i tell them..thank for your advices.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): I pity you for the unfortunate situation you have created for yourself. I don't think you are over the five year relationship and the way you are treating, and using these guys is pretty certain evidence that you are taking out the hurt and pain you suffered on them.The best thing you can do is move on from all of these guys, and spend some proper, quality time to seriously re-establish your self-respect and dignity and overcoming the hurt and pain that your first boyfriend has seemed to have made you feel.
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (20 September 2006):
 I am sorry but this is going to sound really harsh, I dont think that you are ready for a relationship at all.
To be honest I think you are being extremely out of order! You are messing with these poor blokes minds and hearts. I think you should let them all go to be honest. Nobody deserves to be played, the way you are playing these three men.
If you like sex so much, find men who just want a bit of fun. Tell the man you dont want anything serious before you get involved with him.
I dont mean to be nasty and I know I dont know you but do yourself and these blokes a favour and let them go.
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