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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been going with my girlfriend for just over 2 months now. However, recently i've been having doubts whether its her i really want to be with. I do love her, but, another girl whom i'd be gettin very close to before my current girlfriend has been telling me how she misses me and loves me a lot more than my girlfriend ever will. I'd known this other girl for longer and we both loved each other, and try as i might i cant stop thinking about her when im with my girlfriend. I feel bad for thinking about her but i can't help it and the truth is i don't have a clue what i should do. I think i want to be with the other girl but the hard part is how to tell my girlfriend. I like both of them, and thats not good. Please can you give me some advice on my situation. Thanks alot. Reply to this Question
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reader, nologo  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 This may be a test of your relationship.
You should define here your own feelings.
#1: What did you feel to this other girl before you got a GF?
#2: What were your reasons to choose another as a girlfiend?
#3: How far are you ready to go with your current girlfriend?
Once you answer all these questions, you will know what to do.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): Hey Guy, I think that you should not get too serious with you present girlfriend. It's been only two months that you guys have been girlfriend/boyfriend. If you constantly think of this other girl when you are with your gf, it means that you love this other girl. Find a way to tell your present gf that you think that you should sort your feelings first. IT is not easy when you love someone and care for them but you are " inlove with someone else " I am in the same situation only, mines is worst, I am married. Good luck and get out while you can.
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