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female
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30-35,
*ere4You
writes:I recently started liking my best friends brother. He started liking me too and we started dating. Then my best friend caught on and realised we like each other. Because of the 3 year age gap she was quite angry and now she won't even speak to me. What do i do? P.S. I'd rather lose her (friend) than him.
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reader, myp  +, writes (6 June 2007):
 My suggestion. If you dont want to lose either of them than have a talk with her and ask her what shes really mad about, is it the age difference or is it because you didnt tell her straight out that you liked her brother? if this is the case then maybe she feels decieved. In any case its obvious you feel strongly about him, and thats a good thing, but you should also think about loyalty and the fact that shes your best friend. Doesnt she deserve a little consideration? i mean he is her brother. On the other hand 3 yrs is nothing in the dating world. im 15 and i used to date a guy who was 19. Sit down and plead your case, tell her how you feel about him and see if she cant be a little more accepting of a relationship your obviously happy in.
-Myesha
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