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writes:I have a crush on a girl from work, we've hardly spoken but I think about her all the time. I found her on facebook but not sure if i should approach her for fear of looking scary. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): You'll want to first check into the office romance policy. You'll also want to make sure she is open to women as well. At my last job, I worked with a bi-sexual lady who I was friends with at work, we got along well, and then suddenly she started texting me about the x-rated dreams she was having of me. She'd asked me several times about how I felt about women and I told her that I was only interested in male relationships, no big deal, just my preference, and yet she ignored it. It really put me off and made me uncomfortable - just as it would if a male coworker would have done it. If it's kosher to date someone at your job, then try going out with her in a group of coworkers or friends and see how she responds to you. Worry about it then!
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 YOu know what its only the feeling what you have now, take the first step and you will see its not that really hard. If you have a good entention to the woman, theres nothing for you to worry about. woman can feel it if the guy is ok. Go for it, its now or never" I wish you luck.. good luck..
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 Just bear in mind that if your romance turns south you'll be seeing her at work everyday.
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reader, AskAbi +, writes (4 March 2010):
 Well i think you should make an effort to talk to her at work... then if you get friendly-ish... THEN add her on facebook... or else i think it might look a bit odd if you suddenly add her on facebook out of the blue if you havent spoken to her properly.... (:Good luckAskAbi (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Is it a big office? Make sure there aren't any rules about office romances that may cost you your job. If you're all clear on that end go for it. Don't make the mistake of becoming her friend first. You'll most surely end up in the dreaded "Friend Zone" from which there is little to no hope of return.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Honestly dude, life's too short for waiting around. When you see an opportunity, seize it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Make sure she's a lesbian first before taking any actions and creeping her out.
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