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writes: i have a crush on a boy who lives down my road. we go to the same school but he's in year 8 and i'm in year 7. his sister is my little sister's best friend. i've known him for years. i can't stop dreaming about me and him kissing and going on dates. i'm 13 and never been on a date or kissed a guy. what do i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): I'm the same as you. I also like a boy who is my next door niegh or. I think you should start having small chats with him. Those will start getting longer and longer. I hope that helps. Tell me what happens. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): I am in the same boat, as a girl with a crush on a guy older than me. It really is an excellent question that a lot of people have been trying to solve for centuries. I suggest waiting a little while and try to make friends with him. I tried. You will be disappointed to know it isn't easy. Just TRY to talk to him without looking stupid. It's harder than it looks... Any way, once you get comfortable around him, which will take a while, decide if you reeeeaaaallllyyyy still love him, or if it was just friendship you were after. The guy that I have a crush on, well, he and I are friends, and I know a lot about him, but he still has everything i liked about him before. And, maybe as you learn more about him, you won't like what you see and he won't be quite prince charming anymore. Either way, that guy is still in your reach. After you make friends, if you still like him, tell him. Don't ask him out, because that's big and harder to do than gust telling him that you love him. I hope you got a lot out of this, girlfriend!
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reader, bodette_88  +, writes (5 August 2008):
It doesn't really matter whoever you fall in love with, because you can't really help it. You can't help it whether they're older or younger, or whatever. If you can't have him, well then, so what? Not everyone can like you, right? All you just have to do is FOLLOW your heart, and believe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): You should talk to him more and when your little sister wants to go hang out with her bestfriend, go with her and when he is around talk to him........It's better than sitting at home and doing nothing.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Gosh, I cant believe I just taught a 13 year old girl how to pull a guy! *smacks head*
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (31 May 2006):
I really hate sounding off like a dad! But you're only young and Im sure you cant see it yet, but you will have tonnes of possiblities to get in a relationship if you ever wanted to! Time is on your side thats for sure. So why fret over things like this? If you really like him, tell him straight up, and if he likes you back, great, if not, like I said, what have you got to lose?...you WILL get another guy at some point. Its not like you're gonna be single for the rest of your life if this guys doesnt like you back, right? One way to calm your nerves when you go up to him...just treat him like he's the one whos got the crush on you! It works, its called reverse psychology.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Carry on dreaming about him, this is fine and is a normal part of development and growing up.
We all get crushes on people and sometimes these develope into a relationship and other times they just stay as a fantasy.
You need to decide which catagory you want this boy in, if you want to date him then ask him out, this is hard but unless you do you will not know if he likes you as a friend or girlfriend.
Take it all slow, there is no hurry.
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