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writes: i have sadly just found out i have Phimosis, where my foreskin does'nt retract easily i am so pissed off i feel like killing ymself i mean why me? As the holidays are coming up soon i will be goin to my mates caravan he has down by the coast and there is this fit girl down there that may wana have sexual intercourse with me and i know she won't like what she see's. I also get a bit of smegma i think it's called that realeases a foul foul smell =( i duno what to do i was thinking of going to the docters around the first week of april but i don't know what to do, i am so pissed off as i have hardly ever had a girlfriend and this is my chance but i know it will turn out bad as everything else does turen out for me =( hope someone can help me,signed,pissed off 14 year old boy...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): Have you seen a doctor? It is common to have a tight foreskin well into your late teens. It is not uncommon to not be able to retract the head over your glans at 14. As for having sex, it is still possible with phimosis, and you may discover that the smell of your smegma is not as offensive as you may think. Just make sure to wash before you engage in anything intimate, and use a condom with lube to prevent any pain. As for killing yourself...if you're having thoughts like this on a regular basis, you should certainly seek out help. Phimosis is not the end of the world... the most extreme thing that would happen to you is that you would have to get a circumcision. This process is quite common and there are plenty of guys out there without a foreskin because of religious etc. reasons. Many women like the look and feel of a circumcised penis, and it's certainly easier to keep smeg-free.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): Fon't fret.You can easly have your foreskin cut off.It will stop all infection ect.Check out your hospital and they will refere you.Good luk hun.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (26 March 2006):
 GO TO YOUR DOCTOR!
Get a referral to the hospital and then you will get this issue sorted. It may take a while to get the treatment you need, but you have a whole life ahead of you to have *sexual intercourse* as you put it.
Enjoy being 14 and go see a professional about this issue. NOW
PS. Ask your dad or Mum to make the apt if you are worried. They will probably be grateful you have confided and that they are able to help.
xxx
Ps.(again) Good Luck.
x
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reader, Poor_Choice +, writes (25 March 2006):
just wait, chill out and seek some advice! You dont need to have sex your only 14, there will be many more opportunities as you get older. dont give in to peer pressure, and I know people always say this to girls but it applys to boys too "just becuase you have sex with them doesnt mean they'll love or respect you" oh n try the nhs website if your too embrassed to go to the doctors
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reader, dobby666 +, writes (24 March 2006):
 Dude you got a long life of sex ahead of you and i'm sure you've heard this too many times before but you ARE too young for it. Don't feel like you gotta have sex just cos its practically offered on a plate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2006): You are way too young to have sex and if you you shouldn't be in a rush. You've got your whole life ahead of you. When your older then you'll meet a girl who will like you for you and not care if you have anything wrong with you- then it'll be the right time.
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reader, juliagulia +, writes (24 March 2006):
 Look -- this may sound harsh... but you are 14 years old. I don't think waiting a little longer to have sex will hurt you, in fact, it will give you some time to mature beforehand which is never a bad thing. Also, you need to start realizing that many other people have FAR worse issues going on and start feeling lucky that you have a penis that works. Some guys aren't that lucky. I know it sucks when you have something wrong that you can't fix - I have psoriasis (a bad skin condition that itches like mad)all over and I have to use creams and ointments every day for the rest of my life - but I had to just accept it and realize things could ALWAYS be worse. Stop worrying about getting laid and see your doctor to find out what you can do about your condition and whatnot. Then just do your best to take care of it and, believe me, the right girl will accept you for who you are and won't notice one bit. Good luck to you!
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