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writes: I am 15 and I am going out with my first bf. My Mom has told me about boys but the other night when we were kissing he put his hand on one of my boobs but I moved it away. A little bit later he did it again and this time he squeezed and I told him to stop it and he did but just as he was leaving he gave me another squeeze. Now I know what my Mom said but when he felt me a thrill went through me and I liked it. Do you think that when I see him again I should let him feel my tits and if I do will it be dangerous for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): Hey sweetie, I'm also 15, my boyfriend always feels me up I really enjoy it, but let me warn you, once you let him put his hands up your top, then he'll want his hands down your pants, then he'll want your hands down his pants then your mouth down his pants... I've been going out with my boyfriend for the last 3 months and I've lost my viginity to him... So unless your ready, don't let him...
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reader, tinkermad  +, writes (1 December 2010):
i totally understand, im 14 and have an 9th grade bf, he keeps on asking me to give him handjobs and he keeps on touching my breats and butt. but im standong strong, be firm. let him know YOU are NOT okay with this
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): i think if you're ready, go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): Hi, I just happened to run across your question searching for something else. Letting your "bf" touch you that way "or even dressing provocatively" is like taking a child into a candy store and showing him all the nice candies but telling him he can't have any. Eve was a gift to Adam from God. If you desire to save yourself till marriage your doing it God's way.
I'm a man. When a woman tells a man no she should do it loudly and forcefully. Act insulted and angry when he does that. For example "Whoa! I am not your personal whore! Don't you ever touch me like that!" If he does it again "take me home!" Don't try to be nice about it!!! You'll think you're hurting his fellings, but what you'll be doing is training him to respect you and listen to you. This will also increase your value to him like nothing else. People want most what they can't have. This is good especially for the man you end up marrying.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Dear Reader,
Be careful. Him grabbing you may send a thrill through you but if it progresses the only thrill you'll probably get is the result of the pregnacy test, and it may not be a good thrill. If you feel pressured in any way, DITCH HIM
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): This is entirly up to you.But if it makes you feel good then go ahead have fun but don't let him force you into anything
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reader, tux +, writes (27 March 2006):
 I would be cautious with this guy and what you do next. Yes it may have felt good, but you do need to have boundaries especially at a young age. I has been mentioned prior.. My fear is that if you let him continue this, he will continue to push the envelope farther and farther until you're pregnant. You need to move at your pace here. This is a new experience for you. I would wait a while before you let him touch your boob again no matter how good it feels for you. Let him touch your boobs again on your schedule. If he continues to touch your boobs before your time, it's time to move on. There are plenty of other guys that will respect you.
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reader, Miss life fixer +, writes (27 March 2006):
your young and you have lots of time to try new things him touchin your breast is not a bad thing if it makes you feel good or you like it, just remember sometimes one thing can lead to another and you dont need to get to far into anything, above all its just fooling around and no its not dangerous have fun but there is a certain limit on fun, go at your own pace and do things that you want to do and not things that you think you should do just to please him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): Um you probably shouldnt let him becuase if you do thats a sighn that he should go farther then soon you will probably be getting into somestuff you shouldnt have done!So i suggest to let him know the limits or just break up wit him if he does it again.
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reader, Poor_Choice +, writes (25 March 2006):
Its not wrong if thats what you want, but remember you've got plenty of time to experiment as you get older. have clear bonderies and stick to them, it is easy to get caught up in the moment and things could go further than you'd liked, you'll regret this in the end!
above all, have fun and be safe.
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reader, dobby666 +, writes (24 March 2006):
 As a man i can totally understand your boyfriends fascination with boobs. My wife has the most amazing pair. he's young with raging hormone's and its perfectly natural for a boy to do this BUT please do not feel pressured into doing anything you don't wanna do no matter what.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2006): If you like him feeling your boobs and are ok w/ it then let him.. Just talk to him about it if you get uncomfortable.. Only do what you're ready for and if he accepts that and respects you then you probably have a good relationship going.. If this is your first real bf, then you'll probably learn alot and get some more firsts which is nice.. just take ur time and find out what you like.. My bf likes to rub my boobs alot too if we're makin out or somethin but i dont really enjoy it that much.. if you do thats great.. hope that helps, good luck!
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reader, wildgirl2 +, writes (24 March 2006):
this is perfectly normal if you like him doing this let him do it but only if you want to
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2006): If you liked it then there is no harm in it really. What I'd be more concerned about is the fact he didn't listen to you when you told him not too. This is wrong because he really should respect what you want and if you don't want him to do something he shouldn't do it. If you don't want him to do something, be pesistant and strong and don't let him get away with it and take advantage of you.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (24 March 2006):
 It felt nice and there is no harm in that, I too like my boobs felt and as long as it is not too hard and you are consenting and he is not pressurising you to go any further then enjoy it.
If you get worried then stop him and tell him feeling boobs ok, more is not ok and if he continues to do stuff you are not happy with and wont take no for an answer ditch him!!
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