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writes:I have a boyfriend, and lately for the past few weeks he's been treating me more like his friend than he's girlfriend. He plays the piano at my church, and at first in the beginning he wanted to slowly allow everyone to know that we are dating. Well, anyway now that everyone knows, he acts as though were not together even when were not a church. One day our choir memembers went out to eat together, and he didn't even sit beside me at the dinner table. OR he says he'll call me, and he won't; the only time that I talk to him is when I call him. What should I do in this situation? Please, let me know... because I have feelings for him, is it time for me to let go? Why want a man just step up and says how he feels? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): Because he is not really a man yet, and it is probably not the time in his life when he wants to put you and your relationship on parade. I would not be so concerned about how he behaves in public....focus on being his friend first and foremost, because friendship is the basis of all great romances....you may be trying to rush the whole girlfriend role, and he just wants you to back off a bit....play a little more hard to get or he may lose interest for good, don't call him for awhile, give him a chance to call you, even if you have to wait a couple of weeks, that will really make him sit up and take notice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): you need to talk to him and say this what is wrong with you and bring up your feelings and how you feel and just maybe hes not falling for you as he thought he would and doesnt know how to let you go so hes waitting for you to say good bye just talk to him thats the best thing and good luck
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reader, accused +, writes (24 April 2007):
 I think you should talk to him and express to him how you feel.. Explain to him that the way he treats you is that more of a friend instead of his girlfriend. If you are honest with him about how you feel then there is no room for "misunderstandings" later..... Maybe he does not know that he is treating you this way, then again maybe this is how he feels a BF should treat his GF. Either way you have the final say so, as to how someone is treating you! If he does not change then either you have two options 1. deal with it or 2. Leave it and know that you deserve better and don't settle for anything less..... I wish you the best.....
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